Good evening all I am new here. I am 31YO happily Married to my wife (also keyholder) (she is new to this) however I brought it up with her as she hasn’t been happy with my dirty masterbation habits I have (3–7 wanks a day) so she has taken control and locked me up. It’s hard but at the same time I feel completely different. Strange. Hope to meet some new friendly folk who also have same issues as me. (Please don’t say it’s just me) and thank you for allowing me to be apart of the community
I won't say it you playing with yourself is the problem... I will say the results that occurs from you playing with yourself are the problem. If you two communicate and stay honest about what you are feeling with one another things will be better in the intimacy department.