I'm looking for a bit of advice from the community. I'm relatively new to chastity, experimented with a cb6000 a lot last year and both my Wife & KH and I loved the experience and wanted to upgrade to something more permanent. Decided on MM QK, ordered the sizing rings and took measurements over many weeks to ensure fit was as accurate as possible. I ordered two oval base rings with it as I was between sizes and couldn't decide. The smaller ring is a snugger more comfortable fit that doesn't allow the device to slide down but is unbearable/painful at night due to night time erections. I'm a grower. The larger ring slides down a lot during wear but is less uncomfortable at night however I still wake 4-6 times a night with erections and so am not getting enough sleep. I put some coconut oil under the base ring before sleeping and sleep with snug underwear to limit growth, have even tried tying the device closer to my body but I'm still awake multiple times and have to pee/walk around before returning to sleep again. The longest I've managed 24/7 locked is 5 nights but I'm tired now and wondering if it will get any easier over time or should a custom device like this be OK for overnight wear straightaway so maybe I've gotten the sizing wrong? Any and all advice appreciated.
It takes awhile to get used to it. As long as you're not cutting off circulation (your balls will feel cold). You'll be fine.
The smaller and less it moves the better. My wife doesn't really want me to sleep with it on unless I am not in bed with her. I would called up Mature Metal and talk to William and @mistressmaturemetal . They answer the phone almost everytime I call, their customer service is amazing & they are experts in the field!
both excellent pieces of advice, it can take some time for your body to get accustomed to being restrained, but also some expert advice will never go amiss!
At night its the roughest time. For me I tried several devices before I found one that was the right fit. You need to have the right ring, cage and design. With me I went with a small cage and different design. I cannot get out of the device without the key. (Not that I would want too). I'm always locked 24/7 and let out once a week for 10 minutes for cleaning. (Never more than 10 minutes). I'm only milked while in my cage. My last orgasm out of cage was 3 years ago. With the right device sleeping at night will get better over time.
It just took some adjusting to the presence of the cage during sleeping for me. Erections will still wake you up, but after a while you are able to let them pass and get back to sleep. I know some here wear a different cage at night from the one during the day. So if larger ring is less restrictive maybe that will work best. Good luck and enjoy.
Those first probably 2 weeks sleeping while caged are the toughest! Stick with it, your body will adjust and become easier. ~sierra
i has nite cage on me but i think really that it is worser for a man that gets excite a lot and his willy gose big and hard when he has not got a cage on cos when he has got one on then it still try and get big and hard dont it. i glad i dont really.
I think when you have a steel ring around your balls and a cage that allows any kind of growth you are going to be in pain at night, getting erect at night during sleep is normal and it will feel like it is going to rip your balls off' There is a solution.
...and after a few months your body just stops having night erections. At least in my case they are much more rare.
Your Mistress allows you more room to "grow" at night? How wonderful she treats you! Keeping you in a smaller cage during the day is probably a good thing for you.
@Jail Bird well it only a bit bigger and my day one is a plate thingy. but i am glad i am allow to change cage.
Time helps. Getting used to it. If it was an issue of friction for me and not just tightness using something like a lube or KY or even lotion helped it give JUST ENOUGH that it could move over my skin a little and reduce pain
Firstly I'd try drinking less in the evening. Nightly erections are too stop you peeing in your sleep. ( Ever tried peeing with a Hard on. You have too force it.)
with many devices the ring size only goes up in 5mm increments, like 45 mm and 50 mm. With a different type of device, you might get a 48 mm or a 52 mm ring, You might need a different device, or, like most of us, just get used to what is really the right size anyway.
If you are a grower, You might try shortest clone HT v4 cage you can get into (making sure no sharp edges and so-on), preferably the Nub (if you don't have problems with back of the plastic shape etc). My understanding is this should stop erection forming much (at least outside the body) in the first place, avoiding pulling on balls. Described and pictured well here:- https://denyingthumper.com/2019/03/02/holy-trainer-v3-nub-review/ Waiting for my v4 Nub clone to turn up!. In general, different short cage devices might just work better for you...
I've been a week inside my V4 Nub. Tried the same size ring as on my V3 Nano great during the day but was getting painful nightly Hard-Ons. Decided to try larger ring and at first it felt to bulky for daily wear but had no problems with nightly Hard-Ons. After a week without coming out the ring is no problem. I can do everything as I normally would and at times forgot it was on. My opinion is it's near perfect.
I've tried a feel for the larger ring, am having difficulty with comfort under undies or workout-kit... Will try larger ring and interim undies tonight and see...
I'm discovering that V3 Nub feels better, I think for me the v4 cage is actually too wide/bulky and cause too much stretching. Sleeping in the v3 nub feels better but still got woken once. Will try adding suitable tight but comfy-enough undies!.
I am locked in a stainless steel (Chinese Knock off), it is totally secure, comfortable, snug as a bug. The steel Nub is heavier than the resin device, so I use a waist cable to relieve the weight. The cable makes it more secure and comfortable. With locking cable, there is no way out without the key.