I have posted here several times thinking that I had finally found the right cage. I went back to my Bijou and wore it for four days. This morning I placed my wife’s key necklace around her neck. She left it on and is allowing me to wear cage to work. At this point I am thinking that this is about to get serious. Now I am getting a little bit scared. Any similar thoughts?
Maybe, but don't overthink it. Just sit down and talk about it man. Just be honest and hope she does too.
If you truly fit properly in your cage (24/7, no discomfort) and can safely stay there (no danger from a very physical job, exercise, ect.) why not stay in? You trust your KH, you have nothing to fear. Please, do message me (if you wish) and lets chat! All posters before me gave great advice.
Like some have said, let her be your guide and decide where it's going. (As long as you continue to be able to wear the cage safely).