My wife wants this to be surgically permanent

Really?? That sounds very extreme.

 

If it is what the both of you want go for it.

 

Get some written evidence and go to the cops about it. She sounds like a fucking nut.

Hopefully you'll both get the needed treatment.

 

Oh hell no.

 

you need to realise if you get your bits removed you will no longer be interested in sex all desires will go you will no longer have a sex drive and you will no longer have a reason to please her . this is not what chastity is about

 

Yes, of course.

 

Darwin was right.

I say go for it before it's too late.

 

It's called a nullification.
Look for nullo's to get a perspective of the outcome. In the Eunucharchive you can find some more info.
I've seen some profiles on FetLife that had undergone the mod. Maybe they can share some insights.
I consider this an Ultimate stage and I think I will have it done towards the end of my life.
It turns me on a lot but I also the extremeness of the step. It's not for everyone.

 

I'm not one to judge somebody for their kink, but I'm judging you.

 

I'm inclined to think the OP is having a good laugh.

 

Before going all the way, check out procedure called Mounding. Penis and cock are tucked inside body cavity. No touching, no releases, but still sexual desires. Plus nice flat crotch. See if that sounds okay to wife.

 

Here I come to crash the thread with kink killing rational advice.

Seek out a therapist, particularly one who specializes in sex. While this is a hot fantasy for your wife, you would have to live with the results for the rest of your life. And that might turn out to be a lot less thrilling than your wife currently imagines. Either one of you, or both of you, could end up hating it. And that would be a very bad situation no matter which one of you hates it.

If your wife ends up hating it, she might leave you or stay in the relationship but ignore you. Both could lead to emotional and mental health problems for you. Especially if she leaves you. The chances that you would find another woman who would want a man with zero sexual capability and a body that many would find weird are quite slim. And you would have to live with that, knowing that almost nobody would want you. If it's you that ends up hating it, God help you, because there really isn't anything that can be done once it's all gone.

You definitely need to work through this with a qualified mental health professional before committing to it. You need to be very certain that you will not ever regret it. And contrary to what others have posted, having those parts removed doesn't remove all desire. I have no testicles and have been without any sex hormones. There were still needs and desires. They might change, but they don't disappear completely. And you might find yourself hating the knowledge that your needs and desires will go unmet permanently.

Could you be a happy nullo? Maybe. But the risk isn't worth diving into it headfirst without some serious evaluation.

 

Join the message boards at www.eunuch.org and do lots of reading. It IS for some people but probably not the right thing for MOST people. What is her motivation for such a thing? At a minimum you probably want to try chemical castration first unless you plan to take testosterone after castration.

 

their is no question --if u'r wife-owner wants u to be sexless then u need to allow this to happen u really don't have any say in the matter if u are truly Her slave boi i am after many years of chastity and hormones less than one inch long and my Owner talks about havingeverything removed and the outer shin shaped into vagina lips-i would really like this
skvdaniell

 

I'd tell her to take a hike, she might decide to leave you sometime, then what !

 

lol!

 

I wouldn’t listen to the others, I think it’s obvious that you should give that doctor a call. That is if the doctor in question has a working phone and hasn’t moved on to a new burner phone.

If you find him and he’s not in prison, I’m sure he will explain the top notch skill and aftercare he’ll provide. Plus, I hear the motel where he performs the procedure doesn’t make you check out until noon, which is a bonus right?!

Im a little jealous, the loss of bladder control, sexual desire, and the absolute train wreck that will be below your waist, wow. If you find him maybe you could hook me up, we could save some cash and split a double bed room at the motel!

I wouldn’t bother worrying about the future, the consequences, your wife’s motives, yours, or seeing a counselor. They will just ramble on about ethical medicine, mental health, and ask for more talking talking talking. Go for it

 

I have my genitals intact but I'm permanently caged and already never allowed to orgasm again. You don't need castration to achieve this aim and part of the power rush, at least for my own keyholder, is knowing I could and would but can't. Knowing that my sexuality is under HER control. In enjoying that power she has chosen to remove my cock and balls from me but by means that, actually, are harder to endure than castration would be, since I wouldn't have any sexual drive at all. I simply know that my genitals no longer exist in any real sense as sexual organs. I can't touch, can't get erect and can't orgasm. She has absolutely no use for them but loved (and loves) taking them from me. She also loves that I was prepared to let that happen in her name.
Removing them would negate a lot of what the permanence of my chastity represents.

 

If it who I think it is, he's in Michigan. Or was. He could be retired by now, I'm not sure. I called him a few years ago to ask about orchiectomy. I had been on the eunuch site and read about him there, and at the time he did offer nullification surgery.

But, as I said in my first response, this a lifelong decision that can never be undone. Don't go into into unprepared. It deserves major exploration before committing to it.

 

I would be sleeping with one eye open from now on.

 

I hear planet earth are open for holidays this year, why not try that first.