Clean up or not?

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    Paybacks are a ......
     
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    I haven't consumed my cum...Yet. But I do have to clean up if I leak, which I do a lot. My Wife(KH) has told me many time...There is only one person who will be swallowing now if I cum...And it's not her...
     
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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    My wife has never said to do it and I guess I would if she asked.

    But I also think it depends on the moment and how heightened arousal is at the time.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    She tells me to occasionally, it’s not every single time. She would surely enjoy it every time but not because it makes her cum it’s because it’s relaxing after sex and nothing running down her leg on the way to bathroom.

    She never cums from oral, so it’s never about that and all about pushing it out of her. It’s been awhile, but she fed it to me with her fingers when she gave me ruined orgasms. That was more or a control thing and enjoying how revved up I was.
     
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    I cannot and should not expect to make a mess that I am unwilling to correct.
     
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    My wife likes to have sex with me but me having no idea if I get a chance of orgasm this time. I am to assume no orgasm as that is more common. For extra torture, if she decides it is ok I can cum this time she will tell me it is my choice but I have to completely clean up after. That is usually all it takes to push me over the edge.
     
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    I don't cum often, but I always do my clean up duty.
     
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    i have in the past, and after being off-put at first, i really enjoyed it. i have asked my Mistress to make me, but she’s not done so. maybe if i ask her to make me beg to clean her up?
     
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    I allways have to clean after she allows me to cum. I wish she lets me cum more often. I love it.
     
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    whether it is dribbling pre-cum or the very occassional cum, i always have to scoop and lick it up. Mrs is now experimenting with the taste of my cum, by forbidding me coffee, and having me eat lots of sweet fruit
     
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    We (I) have done it a few times. I find I it extremely erotic but I usually back out after release. I don’t know if I have a deep feeling that she is going to be disgusted by it and resent me for it or what. She has requested I do it several times so I think she really does enjoy it. I need to stop being a baby about it and just do it as a rule I suppose.
     
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    My wife has tried to make me a few times after PIV. I’ve asked her to try to make me do it any time I cum. However, I am so excited by this until I cum, then I want nothing to do with it at all. She did tie me up a d use a ring gag once, that was so hot. I was disgusted and humiliated the entire time. I think this is why I love bondage so much, it prevents me from changing my mind, and frees me from the guilt and shame if wanting to do something like that. I think that is why I love being tied up during pegging as well, then I can convince myself I was forced into it!
     
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    Same

    I want her to have me do it. She's grossed out by the concept. She hates doing it. I suspect she assumes I'd hate doing it. I've actually offered many times.
     
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    1.When a man goes down for oral, it's an act of obedience, humiliation, respect, superiority ...
    2.From the very beginning, he should be taught good manners.
    3.Recycling is a must in today's world of pollution and waste.
    4.Sperm is good for skin and complexion,
    5. and has nutritional value.
    6. This is a practical way to keep the bed clean and not to waste paper towels or to not have to wash towels, and there is no need to talk about smeared bedding.
    7. for each sub it indicates its subordinate status.
    8. the woman does not have to wash herself in the bathroom at once, if the cleaning is done properly.
     
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    Every time it is cleaned!
     
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    Back in our PIV days and before chastity & FLR, I usually asked the wife if she wanted to orgasm before or after I did. Looking back, I sure found it exciting to hear the word "after". While I had no problem with post-PIV oral, I struggled with taking the cum straight. I'd try to do it in some private masturbation sessions, but back down.

    Still before chastity & FLR, on a resort vacation once I finally told the wife I needed her help - that I thought swallowing my cum would be something different to try but that I needed her to encourage me through the very common post-orgasm blues. She was intrigued at the thought and within minutes, cum was in a shot glass and down my throat. After repeating this a few times, I realized that I enjoyed swallowing and eating my cum for her, and I think doing that helped affirm my submissive tendencies.

    We're in chastity and somewhat of an FLR now, but age means PIV just doesn't work for her anymore. She's still thrilled at watching me masturbate though, and I know pretty much every time the cum will end in my mouth. Sometimes it's on food or in a drink, but most of the time, at the beginning of a session I'm told to hand her a clear plastic spoon. During teasing and edging, she'll scrape the spoon around my chest, bringing the empty spoon to my mouth, telling me what will be happening. About 9 out of 10 times, she follows through and scrapes up the cum and feeds it to me. On rare occasions, I'm told to hold it there until she says to swallow.

    I love it.
     
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    I'm kept constantly horney and when she lets me out of my cage, I get the pleasure of kneeling between her legs, milking my self on her private parts and then an only then am I allowed to give her oral stimulation.
     
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    Anything that comes out a locked dick has to be cleaned and consumed by the one who made it no mistress or master should me subjected to ur mess
     
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    It's never predictable, but always what @MrsBR_Saiph desires in the moment.
     
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    Yes but no. I have a strong desire to do it when teased/aroused, when I am denied orgasm, or even after a ruined orgasm, but the instant that I achieve orgasm my attitude suddenly flips and the idea becomes repulsive and so therefore I almost always chicken out. It doesn't seem important to Mrs fd so I almost always get away with that indiscretion.
     
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    Princess isn't all that interested in having me do cleanup duty although I'm always more than willing.
     
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    Try ejaculating without orgasming
     
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    Can i see the spoon?
     
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    So I haven't had an orgasm since Sep 17. The time before that was Aug 9. There was a lot of cum. My last Orgasm, I asked her if she'd make me swallow it. She left the bedroom and said, "Do what you want, I don't want to see it though". (She had me orgasm from an amazing handjob/blowjob....she rarely gives blowjobs...I suppose rarely cumming and when she's in the mood to have me cum blowjobs may become more common as a treat. The finish/explosion, was purely from handjob...she hates cum and doesn't want to touch it).

    I tried to eat it, but there was so much of it, and a lot of it didn't have a consistency that I could really scoop off my stomache. That annoyed me. She told me I could do it, but it was a challenge. Her telling me I could do it was enough of a push to get me over the post orgasm change of heart.

    About a week ago, i got a teaspoon from the kitchen and put in our bedroom on the nightstand. After a day or two, she saw it and said I forgot to take a spoon downstairs for dishes to be cleaned. (She's a neat freak and everything has a place so this annoyed her). I told her I left it there on purpose to be able to clean up myself after orgasm when she leaves the room and she doesn't have to see it.

    She got a smirk on her face and said "Well, Maybe I need to take care of you soon so you can use it and put the teaspoon back where it belongs".

    Ugh...major swelling in the cage against the confines of the steel.

    I replied, "Whenever you want to do that is up to you and if you want me to clean up. But after I use the spoon and take downstairs to the dishes, I would replace it with another spoon"

    She replied, "I guess so" with a smile

    Did I Really Ask 4 This???
     
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    HerLittleBitch Under the spell of my loving @Mistress-M

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    Most definitely, every time’s a must
     
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