Hi there I am DominaFire and my husband is JellyBaby, we have been together for 12 years and met on the (sadly) defunct site Informed Consent. We are into various kinky activities which I won’t go into here but our big ‘thing’ is chastity play, There have been times over the 12 years when real life got in the way and chastity was shelved and there have been times of intense activity, ebb and flow I guess. Anyway, due to circumstances I won’t bore you with we have decided at this point in our relationship to formalise our activities as real life can water all kinky things down and get in the way, so we are going a bit more lifestyle with it all, putting rituals in place and making rules etc. Thus far we have revisited our likes, dislikes and hard limits and written a contract accordingly. So this is where you lovely lot can help us. I have decided that on certain conditions Jelly will get a weekly treat and this will be decided by a spinner app so will be random, of course being a domme there will be a few empty portions where he will end up with nothing (laughs wickedly) and so far I have come up with a couple of ideas to go on said spinner but Jelly thought it might be fun to ask the community for ideas. Basically, I want a sliding scale I guess, some good things and maybe one really good thing and of course the chance of getting nothing. Bearing in mind he wears his device from when he gets home until he showers for work in the morning and all weekend. ideas gratefully received and considered.
One thing I have always found interesting is... what is bad for some people is good for others!!! I would put things on the spinner that amuse you whether he likes them or not... It's only once a week so even if they are all bad, it can't make his life that miserable, lol.
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Welcome. The best fun is devious fun. I don't have many suggestions per se. My Goddess and I use card games, board games, weird little competitions to help stimulate some fun within the experience. At one point I planned out a game show from tv, for her to play through some fun little challenges with bdsm style prizes. Life can get in the way, but holding tight to each other in those times using kink certainly keeps it interesting. Good luck. M.
IC was where I cut my domme teeth and learned a lot about myself, kinks in general and what I did and didn’t want. What I want is gently sleeping next to me as he was kept awake last night deep into the night, haha.
A belated welcome, I hope you enjoy the forum. I totally agree with yourself and @MistressNicx about IC. Sadly missed.