Good morning. I hope to find a female key holder. I am currently locked (CB 6000s), but holding my key. I understand comfort level is important,, as are any requirements of the keyhokder. I will answer any questions or do anything else that a prospective keyholder asks so we can get to that level of comfort. If you are a woman that may be interested in key holding, please contact me
A few other ideas: - Fetlife ... lots of ways to meet people there - Local dating options ... there are lots of women looking for men; consider loosening your requirements (e.g. accept a wider age range), and you may find what you're looking for. Let's say you're a 30 year old ... it may be hard to find a 25 year old key holder, but you may have much more luck going older. Just be sure that your profile gives a good hint at what you're looking for; you don't have to say "looking for keyholder", but "looking for a woman who knows what she wants and won't take no for an answer" might do
I've been locking using chastikey. There's a whole discord forum where you can find keyholders and get locked up pretty easily. You just need a combination lock box. The chastikey app itself is getting discontinued in the new year but alternatives are coming. It's a good way of dipping your toe in. You're giving up control but the key is always physically with you which is good in an emergency. No rush of losing them in the mail
I am Locked now. I will write a short story of how it happened in journals forum. I am required to that.
Are you wanting a free keyholder, or are you willing to pay? 'Free' requires building / having a real relationship with a woman who is equally engaged with you. The other 'free' is self-directed. If you simply don't care who holds it, and just want the inability to access your key, throw it the bushes behind your house where it's hard to find, or post it to a friend in another country via the slowest mail option, then ask them to mail it back to you. Or put it somewhere hard to access like a bank security box, or glued to the underside of your refrigerator. There are apps out there too that are driven by the community but it requires self-discipline. The paid route is via a professional service or individual who will charge a fee. There isn't a right or wrong type of keyholding, but it's best to be clear about which one you want so you can set/manage your own expectations. It's generally unreasonable to expect others whom you don't have a developed relationship with to support/entertain your wants/needs (regardless of whether it's sex or even fixing your car) for free. In my experience, the best part of being key-held is having the key-holder being engaged with me, and me being engaged with them. That way the head-fucking goes both ways and it dials up the fun. It's not that fun for me to play tennis by myself so to speak. So the holy grail IMHO is to create a bond with a real person who delights in holding my key, as much as I enjoy it being held. And sometimes that starts out as a paid thing, and it becomes unpaid in time as the relationship develops. That's my two cents. Some clarity in your request may also enable others to guide you too.