New poll...IS SHE EVER GRUMPY?

Yep. You.

 

I'm not getting involved. Lol

 

Safe to say, the two of us had a very good laugh over it. Please, continue.

I'm not sure the logic of being on a website for submissive males and Dominant women, then bristling and acting like a prick when called out for doofus theory commentary at a tongue in cheek comment from an actual Domme.

I assume messing with any of the wonderful Dommes here nets the same result.

Maybe you should do a poll as to why more women dont participate here next?

 

The easiest way is to fully block such people then they are talking to themselves only. I have the said one blocked since the first day I joined here since you can’t cure stupid it’s the easiest way so peace reins.

 

Done. Agreed.

 

Nvm. I already did.

 

i can tell when i open door when Mistress comes home if i need to be careful more. i dont say that She grumpy ever but i watch what i say if She has got a look that i know means be careful.

 

I would like to offer my apologies to the original author, barbells (I believe), for engaging with someone in a manner that completely derailed your thread at one point and became inappropriate, at best. I am sorry.

Please also forgive my sissy, Pretty Monnica, as she is fiercely protective of me, as I am of and for her. And as much as I'd love to believe I have ultimate control over her, she is still a free-thinking and strong-willed individual who will always have my back and interject when she feels the need to *ahem*. Part of the reason I love her as much as I do, and part of the reason I need to be more assertive in my Dominance (lol), so her alpha side doesn't spark and try to take over.

I hope you can understand and please find a way to forgive me and my lovely sissy.

Good luck with your journey!

Kind regards,
Goddess Violet

 

Agreed.

 

I hate the assumption that people who answer differently than you are lying. My wife has bad days and is dealing with arthritis pain. She has dealt with the loss of loved ones. But she has never been grumpy. And that fact is one of the great blessings in my life.

 

I didn't quite catch that ... which kind of lego?

 

Will you just lego of it, for pete's sake man! It's like talking to a Lego Brick wall.

 

Answered, but didn't vote.
There was no option for yes and she stays that way until i fix my behaviour.

 

The night is dark and full of terrors fellow traveler.

 

i ave writ on this one here but i did not vote cos i dont think i shud be rude bout Mistress.

 

My wife is a sweetheart. I wouldn’t ever really categorize her as grumpy. Is she ever wrong, out of line, short, preoccupied, stressed, etc yup.

I will say most of our arguments happen when we’ve both been drinking. The night starts out great, but as things get later, her attitude seems to lash out and me being a bit tipsy too tend to fire back instead of letting it go. Mostly it’s overreacting without a proper filter. She usually says sorry the next day, and I say it’s ok and apologize for reacting.

She’s very interactive, so we don’t have the passive aggressive grumpiness or sulking. If she’s mad she’ll say something, if not, it’s peaches and cream. She asks me how my day is going, tells me when she’s on her way home. We communicate, so if she has work issues I listen, if she has family issues I listen, if she feels like some alone time she hits the casino to decompress and relax.

I few times when we were about to hang out on our boat, beach, and fun, she threw a little fit over not being able to find her sunglasses. Was gonna just stay home over that. She knew she was being ridiculous. Grumpy? I wouldn’t call it that, she was upset over something and sunglasses was what came out.

So no she’s not grumpy a few days a month. She’s human all of them, as we all are.

 

I voted am never grumpy and I am confident my BR would support that. I am strong, opinionated, vocal, honest, critical. I have good days and bad however even on a bad day would never describe myself as grumpy. I will disagree, argue a valid point until the cows come home but not grumpy. It could be the definition of grumpy that is in question. I welcome differeing opinions, discussion, disagreement. All this leads to better communication.

 

OK. Weighing in. Is grumpy more of a male trait? Women aren't grumpy, they are just rightly disappointed sometimes.