Yesterday i was at home with my husband. We we were cuddling in bed and he asked me if he could lick my pussy. I allow him to di that once a month. It may seems cruel, but I think that chastity doesn't mean only orgasm denial, but also different kinds of denial. I want he always need me in any way possible. Anyway i was tired and i kindly said him "no". He did not reply and smiled to me. I thought that he's such a good boy. I decided to allow him to watch a porn. He likes the more lesbian porn. After 10 minutes he begged me to stop it because he was so horny. He said that his balls ached a lot. We washed them with warm water and he felt better. Then we go to bed and we fall asleep.
Finding the proper balance between both of you is important. I like how you stuck to your decisions but allowed him alternatives. Good luck and enjoy.
I absolutely don't want to hurt him. I try to make that journey as strict and as easy as possible for him..
May I just say that this was so much more erotic than the obvious fantasy material we sometimes see here. You are so right that denial is much more than just orgasms. My hat is tipped to you my lady.
Many well trained subs are use to hearing NO. I know for me, sometimes I love hearing my wife say No. It's a nice reminder of who's in charge.
Yeah my good wife Madame Vanilla also rations my time licking her puss. It feels good for her, but she THINKS its disgusting. Poor me, I have to beg for her puss juices.