FLR in bedroom and men leading partners in public? Possible?

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    #1 PawEee, Aug 16, 2021
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    Does men female-controlled in bedroom & at home 24/7 retain lead in public spheres of life? Theoretically possible, but does anybody of CM members live like that?
    A typical example is dance in a couple. One of partners is to lead to make dance work, the follower is to listen to signals send beetween their bodies and react fast and creatively to inspire the leader to a beautiful creative lead in line with the music. That’s how it is in rock’n roll, valtz, tango, milonga.
    And then the opposite in sex? Sounds pleasantly perverse ;)
    To illustrate, I link to a performance by a uniquely creative leader Mariano Chico Frumboli and a perfect follower Juana Sepulveda. <
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    #2 madams-sissysub, Sep 6, 2021
    I think you will find there are quite a few users here that have adapted to using this practice.
     
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    #3 MissyB, Sep 14, 2021
    Yes, in fact i think most men would find this easier to achieve than an actual FLR.
     
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    #4 Guest 8927, Sep 14, 2021
    We did a bit of a couples workbook as we set up our FLR, and this was one of the options presented, and is a bit more mainstream.

    I might add, it's not a stretch to assume that the female essentially decides whether sex occurs or not in most relationships. Possibly not in the beginning, but given the complexities of the female anatomy, over time. So, it just adds a Dominant feel to her role specifically in the bedroom. Some of the fun is in keeping the secret.
     
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    #5 LockedTower, Sep 14, 2021
    Everything is possible as long as both partners are satisfied.
     
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