Does your Lady physically punish you when you need it ??

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    I like you posting @Feathers.Sub , but I think that most here rather see it as some excuse for play sessions.

    For us punishment is a very rare thing and corporeal punishment even more.

    Not all too bad for me as I am not much into pain. She is into inflicting it though, but does not need excuses to do so. She does want to do it, then she does.

    However there is one situation where the title fits as a second skin: When I am under a lot of stress. When she senses this there some things she might do and a whipping is one of them and usually would help a lot to calm down.
     
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    Yes, if I do something wrong I will have a punish, and I will remember it!
     
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    My Wife will punish me whenever she feels like it. Sometimes for no reason, just because she feels wicked. Otherwise it’s monthly, and that is corporal punishment. No safe word, tied to our bench, and gagged. I have the whole month to think about what is coming at month end. This has proved to start to break me as not only a sub husband, but as a slave husband. It might seem erotic thinking about, but once that first cane stroke hits. It’s unbearable, and I can only think about it ending. Ms will draw it out for 5 to 10 minutes, ending after about 20 to 30 strokes. Leaving me whimpering and sobbing, she’ll turn off the lights and let me compose myself and think about it for another 40 minutes before coming back and releasing me. I grovel and kiss her feet thanking her my training. Yesterday was month end, and I can’t even sit right now to write this.
     
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    My Keyholder Wife doesn't directly physically punish me, but She reduces the grade i get at the end of the week, which brings various punishments such as wearing a gag all day or corner time.

    So i know that in every dispute, i will come out the loser eventually. Over time, that has helped me learn to obey and submit from the start (usually).

    asa
     
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    I am spanked across her lap regularly, sometimes hard and sometimes more sensually.

    If she really wants to get through to me she used the clothes brush or the cane, and she is not afraid to use them hard.
     
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    No, most physical punishment is included in sessions, as she knows I enjoy being spanked ect, most actual punishments are mental, or psychological.
     
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    she'll definitely punish me if she feels its appropriate and wants to sink a message in quick. it usually starts with me making a fuss about it and by about 15 or so bare hard swats in ill comply with whatever she's demanding. she always does some aftercare and will be very cuddly and soft for the next bit so that i know that she's not mad, she's just firm.
     
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    Last evening, we reviewed my behavior at Sunday brunch, with our dog shock collar attached to my balls and my Keyholder Wife with the controls. She upped the shocks until i remembered my poor behavior and described what i will do differently the next time. A lesson i will not soon forget!

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    yes. :(
     
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    Yes. We review each week. Last night was our weekly review night. This was the first time in a long time she really raised her voice, irritated that I talked over her when she was telling a story to friends, Instead of a "maintenance day" she told me I was to be punished. I received 15 very hard swats with her bath brush last night. So much more severe than her maintenance swats, I still feel it deep today. She was much more relaxed after she had physically relieved herself of her stress. I was certainly more attentive to her. Our relationship has never been stronger.
     
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    Lol, I get punished every time we play and I get tied up.

    It is never tie me down and rape me. It is tie me down, whip, clamp, shock me and then rape me.

    Now, if I do something bad, it is the above but more severe and without the rape.
     
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    As a masochist and someone that adores impact play to the point of edging, traditional methods don't work. Kneeling on salt however... OOOFF
     
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    please being rape is horrible. it mean that somebody has make you do something that you dint want and it is wrong and it make the one that dint want it bad and very very unhapy and it should not ever happen.
     
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    Yes, don't really like to throw that term around. Not the kind of act that should be role played in general. I'm sure you just mean a good pegging.
     
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    Consensual rape :) they point is I'm tied and helpless and have no say in what happens
     
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