To my surprise wife/kh has taken to this more than I could imagine. She has found great pleasure in locking me up over here period, with zero chance of release. As the days go by my frustration has been building. She has found this very amusing, she tells me if she is going to suffer this week I'm going to join her!! Its taken us 1.5 years to get to this point. When we started I would have never thought she would take to it like she has. She takes my cage off every morning in the shower. I'm instructed that if I touch once she will add a day. Before she would say these things and not follow through but now she means It!!!! To make matters worse she has been edging me in the shower. I received my first ruined O this morning...... what a let down.
What a game changer when the Wife / KH takes over and does it the way they want! Amazing and terrifying
That’s great! This is the point where it moves from your control to hers, and she wants it! It can be a little scary.
it is great, what is the turning point that bring her from vanilla to a KH lady? What has motivate her to change her mind?
With my subspace head on. I love the ruined orgasms. Frustratisfying. And no subdrop. It's a win win situation for your lady. And deliciously hot too. Part of me wants her to mostly only allow ruined orgasms, and make a full one more rare. It's in her best interests. If it takes me 4 to 5 days to get desperate just for an erection, and she let's me have a full orgasm once a week, she only gets 2 of 7 days of deep subspace out of me. How is that fair? If it was two weeks, then she'll get 9 of 14, which is barely over half the time with a fully devoted husband. Does that seem right? Three weeks is 16 of 21 days is about 76% (did I do the maths right?) That's more like it, but is that setting the bar too low? 4 weeks is 23 of 28 days which I think (please check?) Is around 82% a reasonable goal, but if you asked your KH what percentage of time should you be allowed to be in subdrop? What do you think they would say? 31 days (seeing that Lockober is coming...I hope you will not be!) 26 of 31 is just short of 84%. Starts to get difficult to make up those points now. 2 months is 55 of 60 now you are at 91.66% Should that be the goal, or is that not enough for Mistress Not until 100 days do you reach 95% of submissiveness. 450 days without a full orgasm and you would be horny and dedicated 99% of the time. Which would she choose?
Just seeing the benefits it has on our relationship. She making it her own thing which in turn makes it fun for her
The key is to get rid of the 4-5 day delay, then! That's your easiest way to push the percentage towards 100. It's also the reason why I like the cage (because it helps me get there much faster). I'd much rather never have the sub-drop, but I'd also much rather get to have sex at least once a day. Still trying to figure out how to get either one of those (let alone both) to happen.
Hey, I wasn't asking for criticism of my weight problem. In all seriousness, I'm likely never getting back to the multiple-Os-per-day status. At least not with the current wife (who is a definite keeper). So yeah, never getting back to the multiple-Os-per-day status. But I'm continuing to work on the other half of the problem: Eliminating the sub drop. So far, the best way, for me, is getting caged back up ASAP.
Caged has been my default setting since I started this last October. It's just on and that's it. Only took a few weeks and I missed it when it was off