Hello and welcome. We do have a Personals section where you may have more luck looking for a keyholder. Good luck
Get involved with the local Female Dom/male sub community. The Va Beach/ Southeast Va area has a very active one with some great folks.
I’m not sure exactly as I’m in Central Va. If you’re on Fetlife you can start there. If not it’s a good site to join to find local groups like this. I’d start by looking for Ms Peebles. I know she’s one of the leaders down there. Unfortunately I don’t recall many of the others. But looking at her profile should help you find the groups and people to search.