I'm a software engineering leader and a devoted husband of 40 years. As oddly amazing as it might seem, my wife and I are still keeping things fresh and spicy. That now includes chastity for me--at my request. I don't where it will lead, but the mere thought of giving her control over my penis is so hot it drives me crazy. The part that surprises me just a little is that my wife has not hesitated. She seems as anxious as I am for the device to arrive (hopefully today). She seemed particularly intrigued about wearing the key around her neck. Obviously, I'm here to learn (fast) how this all works. I've read a lot in the last few days and it did change the kind of device we ordered.
If you're just getting started, it is common to have trouble finding a good fit right away. Try it in short segments of time at first and don't try to grind through any significant discomfort because it often just gets worse. Focus on comfort first and then extend duration.
I honestly hope chastity turns out to be as rewarding for you as it has been for me. If you are new to Chasity, you are probably best served by starting slow. i.e. start with short but ever increasing lockup times. ...and remember that lube is your friend
Thank you, Alana. I already know what you mean about the lube! I ordered a medium size cage thinking there was no way I could be a large.... and I'm probably not, but even so I had to take a break getting the cage on. Honestly, I thought it kind of strange to post a "caged dick pic", but if I get this thing on correctly, I may have to put one in my gallery just to celebrate the achievement. Sheesh.
If it helps any, I found that to put on a cage (or at least any that I own), I need to be at my smallest. It's probably best to be alone and naked in a warm room without being aroused. Pro Tip, numbing cream can help to keep it small long enough to put on your cage ...lubing both your (properly fitting) cage, and yourself will go a long way to help it go on relatively easily
So it normal for my testicles to be a little cold? They're stretched away from my body a bit so I'm not wholly surprised. And there's no pain, they're just cool to the touch. I'd hate for them to fall off, though.
Hi Rick and welcome.. Re: your testicles being cool. Testicles should be cool (at the risk of stating the obvious that's why there outside), but as in all things, excessively cool might be a problem. As also might pain, burning sensation and discolouration. Don't ignore 'pinch zones' too. Don't be afraid to use the newbie forum or chat room for advice. There's a wealth of experience here