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    Whatever she read, seemed to have the desired effect. Can you post the link?
     
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    Last night we went out for my wife’s birthday, had dinner, then went to a different place for drinks. I was caged the whole time and had been for about 48hrs. When we got home I just assumed that she would unlock me bc she was a little tipsy. We got in the bed, some time passed, and she didn’t want to do anything. So I asked if she would unlock me, (I was super horny and was hoping maybe she would let me j/o) she asked why and before I could answer she says “I hope you don’t think you’re getting unlocked to jack off, that defeats the whole purpose of you being caged.” “Don’t ask again bc I decide when you unlock.” I melted like butter. Honestly this it the first time I’ve truly experienced her actually taking to the whole idea of chastity. It was frustrating but arousing all at the same time. It made me feel so small so inferior to her. I know I am. I’m hoping she’ll be open to the idea of punishment for me being so selfish and asking to unlock.
     
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    Superb! It’s a great feeling, isn ‘t it, when you realise your wife has become the one in charge, that your cock is now her property to use as she wishes. Happy journey!
     
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    Congratulations! it looks like your wife is embracing her new role as your key holder. I’m sure it was incredibly arousing to hear her take control and deny you. I’m sure she could benefit from becoming a member of this forum and learn how to keep you on edge in her service. Welcome to the club. ;):lockkey:
     
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    I’m experiencing some difficulty with nocturnal erections. I need so advice or tips and tricks. I wanted to be caged 24/7. My wife told me tonight that I “need to be caged bc when I’m let out I think it’s time to play”. She wants me locked 24/7. I told her that the erections during the night were uncomfortable but they’re actually painful. I can’t make them go away no matter how hard I try. If she finds out that the cage is actually causing me pain it’ll change her mind completely. I don’t want that to happen bc she is just beginning to take control. I can see it all over her face that she is enjoying it just as much as I am.
     
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    Also we discussed some rules tonight. From now she will allow me to masturbate under her supervision but only when she thinks I deserve it. I will not be allowed to look at any pics or videos while masturbating. Also she will set a timer on her phone and if I don’t cum within the allowed time I am to be locked back up immediately. ( she hasn’t said how much time she will allow)
    Also she wants to do the ratio rule. Meaning I’m only allowed 1 orgasm for every 10 of hers. (She hasn’t decided the numbers for the ratio yet) She is really loving the teasing / keeping me guessing part of chastity lifestyle. She won’t give me any specifics right away. She knows exactly what she’s doing. I am going insane right now and I love it. I would literally do anything she told me right now. Also the rules we agreed on came from the link I posted earlier in the forum.
     
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    Sounds like you are making great progress. Your wife has embraced this FLR chastity world very quickly. Hope you find you can keep going, given your struggles with wearing the cage 24/7.
    I assume you have tried peeing if you get erection pain overnight? If that is not helping it may be that you could adjust your cage a bit. I have been at this for over 3 weeks now, and I still suffer at times overnight with erections and ring pain. I put up with it because I am enjoying the permanent high I feel, the improved relationship with my wife, and getting my kicks from her having beautiful orgasms.
     
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    Maybe not the right dimensions for the cage.
    It sound that you have to.much room to grow.
    Flacid i am 55mmlong and 35mm wide and have a cage of 45mmlong and 33mm wide with a gap of 5mm

    The balltrap is 50mm i can get 1 knockle under it.
    He tries to erect but because i don't have the space i cant grow (i'm a grower).

    For the restnjust Talk and surrender she has the Keys.
    This morning the wife was hornynsonibhelped her out.
    I sayd the cage want gemoffeld off is it?
    The Answerr was yep its not getting of go get the strapon and fuck me....
     
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    Gotcha. I have tried and peeing does give me some relief. Guess I need to tough it out on my days off. Sleep is pretty crucial on the days I work bc my job is very physical. I have played with the ring size some, I’ve only tried sleeping in one size though. My new cage came with 4 different size rings. I’m on the 2nd to smallest one. Would it be better to move up or down a size?
     
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    That may be my problem. To much room. I am a grower as well. Flaccid I’m about 2” my current cage is 2.35”. I have ordered a smaller cage about 1.89”. About a 1/2” smaller. I’m going to give that a try. I may need even smaller.
     
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    Maybe this will help with the measurments.
    https://lockthecock.eu/blogs/chastity-fun/choosing-the-right-one
     
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    Anybody else have problems with their balls pinching? I haven’t had any trouble at all with the ring. It’s the top side of my balls against the tube/cage. I have a smaller cage otw. I wonder if that will solve it. Also I wear pouch trunks and briefs.
     
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    My jailbird is small enough that my shrunken penis touches the end. Getting hard is not pauinful, but rather pleasant
     
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    What the dimensions of you don’t mind me asking ?
     
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    Yeah. With a custom, you can size the gap to take care of this. I get a bit of pinching on the stainless one that I normally use ... not a custom.
     
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    So I got a smaller cage. Works great, I’ve played with the ring sizes. I know which one works, BUT I’ve been caged for about 72 hours straight and I have a sore spot on the under side of my sack where the ring sits. Should I take it off and give it a break or is there something I can do to get some relief? I’ve been using lube. I’m assuming it’s just tender down there and it’ll take some time getting used to.
     
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    I’m having a similar problem- sore overnight for the last two nights. I’ve put some happy-rash cream on it for now, but am thinking asking my KH if I can be uncaged overnight tonight.
     
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    have you try and move the ring a little bit to a new spot.
     
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    I tried the biggest ring I have. So far it’s giving me some relief. Hopefully I can wear this one until it goes away.
     
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    Yesterday my wife surprised me with a text “ spanking or timer?” I chose to be timed. She gave me the keys, I unlocked and she set a timer for 20 seconds and warned me that I had better stop when she said so. The timer started and I began to j/o. The whole time I was thinking, there is no way I can cum in 20 seconds. Well, I was wrong.. It literally took me 20 seconds. It was pretty embarrassing. My wife looks at at while I’m cumming and says “ really, 20 seconds? Next time you only get 10”
     
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    A few suggestions:
    Ring size - if you 4 rings - start with largest - work down over time to smaller
    Pinching - make sure your balls are dry - use plenty baby powder to absorb perspiration and to allow ring to move more freely
    Night time erections - try to limit fluid intake before bed, go pee before bed, less fluids less painful the morning erection ..

    Just my experiences ...
     
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    can you do that in 10 secs then.
     
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    She gave me 10 seconds last night. I couldn’t…
     
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    ooh giggle. :) i dint think that you wud.
     
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