Hi I am married to a vanilla woman. Been self locking for about 18 months now. Trying to find a way to broach the topic with my wife. Would love for her to be KH. Sub tendencies certainly growing. Looking forward to learning more from like minded people. Chris
Welcome Chris I am also new and in a very same position although been self locking for about 3 years.
Welcome to CM. You might suggest to her that you'd like Her help in controlling your compulsion to masturbate. During the ensuing discussion suggest that there are such things as chastity cages that prevent wanking and ask Her to hold your key. Women, in general, hate to think that their partner is wanking and thereby wasting the sex that is rightfully theirs. Just a suggestion that has worked for others. What do you think?
Hello DonnaSue I have been thinking of something along those lines. It makes sense to try. I have raised chastity twice before but she did not respond overwhelmingly. I need to concentrate on letting her know what she can get out of it. Cheers