Straying from the male stereotype.

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    #1 Jon_Grey, Jun 13, 2021
    Hello people. I would like to list down a few traits a normal male stereotype has and how a submissive male deviates from them. Feel free to pour your thoughts on how many of these you connect with.

    1. Denied Patriarchy/Gender equality - You feel inferior to woman and believe woman should be prime decision makers in everything and many roles in a partiachal world should be reversed.

    2. Denied Financial Autonomy - You like depending on your spouse for your financial needs even though you earn a lot of money. She controls your cards and bank accounts.

    3. Denied Dignity - You prefer being kept naked or made to strip. You love CFNM scenarios and are generally an exhibitionist loving to be displayed.

    4. Denied privacy - You hate closed doors and love being walked in with your pants down. Either its peeing/masturbating/changing clothes.

    5. Denied dominance - You prefer submissive roles in sexual and BDSM scenarios. You are generally not the aggressor and you work to please not pleased.

    6. Denied Penis ego - You are not proud of the size of your penis, be it 2 inches or 9 inches. YOu always prefer it to be smaller and prefer non penetrative means of sexual activity.

    7. Denied horny thoughts - You hate having sexy thoughts. You want to be restricted from viewing porn and prefer your mind to be focused on other fruitful things.

    8. Denied erections - You wish your penis stayed flaccid. You do not want it distracting you from other stuff.

    9. Denied ejaculations - You hate the mess it creates when it leaks. The best you would want out of this is an edge.

    10. Denied orgasms - You are ok with the mess or maybe not. But you do not want to feel pleased. You do not want closure. Ruined orgasms are your best friend.

    11. Denied potency - You do not wish to impregnate. Maybe you already have children or maybe you dont. Youo just wish to go infertile further.

    12. Denied fidelity - You wish your partner isnt exclusive to you. While you devote yourself to pleasing her, you love it when she gets attention elsewhere. YOu love to be a cuckold openly or you love being cheated upon.

    13. Denied masculinity - YOu love having an effeminate body. you work towards developing feminine manerisms and transforming your body to fit your creativity.

    14. Denied male attire - Crossdressing and all its aspects. YOu love them

    15. Denied anal virginity - You love anal play. plugs, insertions, prostate massage, strapons, and even intercourse. Everything's up your alley.


    I just made this list to be my understanding of a submissive male psyche. A chastity cage augments with most of these traits. Not everyone accepts every trait, but atleast a few of them. To my understanding most of us fit into one or many of these.
     
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    #2 sissy_connie, Jun 19, 2021
    Very good list. As a submissive sissy...I am not sure that I agree with all 15 points but very good. Also I definitely agree that chastity helps the feminization process. Being locked and caged is a constant reminder of "its" inferior status and that is should never disappoint any woman. Also...my Holy Trainer allows me to present a very feminine front as it pushes my clitty down and backwards.
     
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    #3 DonnaSue, Jun 19, 2021
    I agree with @sissy_connie . Most of the points are right on, but us sissies think a little differently, it seems
     
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    #4 Peter Rabbit, Jun 19, 2021
    I like this list. It’s a good set of definitions to self describe what portions of this list you experience or aspire to live….

    I’m denied dignity, dominance, penis ego, orgasms, forceful ejaculations, potency, and anal virginity.

    I am also denied “stamina”. I think you could add that to the list. This is not quite penis ego nor is it potency. My old pride in lasting and getting to fuck long and hard has been erased.

    But to carve out the exceptions…

    Respectfully, My wife and I are not supremacists regardless of gender or race. She prefers me to be responsible in maintaining finances.Though I have stopped buying pornography and penis jewelry and male chastity devices. She gives me privacy naturally.

    I am encouraged to have horny thoughts. I am encouraged to get erections in my cage. It’s a sign I’m healthy and wanting. She uses my desire to overwhelm me.

    She likes making me “ejaculate”… though they are gentle emissions and twitch free. Spilling me out is fun for her.

    We are monogamous. She said if there’s ever someone else, that I’d be part of it, and we’d do it together.

    I adore femininity and we both like gender fluid folk. But I’m masculine and not effeminate in presentation undressed or dressed. I don’t see those as choices, and I’m glad I can be a male submissive without making that a prerequisite.
     
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    #5 Jon_Grey, Jun 19, 2021
    I didnt say all 15 should apply to you. Atleast 4-5 fits most submissive men.
     
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    #6 Peter Rabbit, Jun 19, 2021
    Exactly! I agree. I like this list very much. It’s a good list to connect with.
     
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    #7 madams-sissysub, Nov 19, 2021
    Thanks for posting!
     
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