A little concerned...is this permanent?

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    My wife /KH pretty much said yesterday that I will never come again.

    Bit of back story, I am submissive my wife is dominant, we have been married 6 years, and are fairly kinky. We have no children around, and I worked from home. So our bedroom is basically a dungeon , I am usually naked and collard.

    Currently;
    12 days ago we put me a metal cage with an urethra tube. We had tried a CB6000 and a silicone before, they were awful.
    We decided we wanted a very comfy "longer term" wear than they could provided, so metal cage shopping and research!

    I wanted no jiggly pad lock, metal bars , an oval base ring and a removable urethra tube. Found the perfect device on ETSY. Took 6 weeks for delivery. Found the Base ring was slightly too small, ordered the next size base ring, delivery 1 week and I had the " perfect cage"

    Everyone online seems concerned about an UTI with a urethra tube...look up homeopathic UTI... cranberries are awesome at preventing UTI.

    I researched cleaning it, I scrub the inside of the tube with a Q-Tip and alcohol, then put it in boiling water for 3 minutes, let it cool then put it on. I use Nizeral (an anti-fungal shampoo) yes I hate to break it but that funky smell of ball sweat is due to fungi, So I use Nizeral and a make-up brush to scrub my cage, balls, shaft and head. I have a foreskin so I use
    a Q-Tip thru the bars to move it out of the way.

    While waiting for may cage to arrive, I now focused on Mistress's needs
    I found RODEOH and a lifelike dildo that was slightly longer than me but the same girth, as I noticed my wife would beg for "deeper" when we had PIV sex. The RODEOH is basically boxer's with a dildo, but way easier than the "strap-on" dildo.
    I found a life like dildo that was almost exactly the same girth, but an 1-1/2" longer than me,

    So it all arrived....

    The first time with the RodeOh, it was a lukewarm response from Mistress, we talked after and she seemed relieved when I said I enjoyed sex while using it too.
    Now Mistress loves it, I have never heard her, moan and beg like she does now. She even pulled my hair!


    She dressed up in sexy Lingerie a first..EVER on day 5, said I needed a shower and a checking and let me out of my cage for a timed 15 minutes.. to shower, clean and dry and kneeling in our bedroom.

    She laid me down on the floor and trampled my cock and balls with her shoes... the lowered herself onto my cock for one solitary stroke, got up, told me to put on my cage and fuck her with Rodeo....

    She came hard...my balls are literally bruised and swollen. She mentioned how much cleaner sex is without "my mess"

    She then proceeded to put on a latex glove and massage my prostate until I leaked a bit...

    Day 8
    She had me kneel in the shower on all fours while she used my back as a table to rest her foot on and shave her legs..
    The dried her legs, and she had me massage her feet and legs

    Yesterday..
    Another prostate massage, she asked if I came, I said no...her response was, "You need to learn"

    Later in the day I asked when I would get out of my cage, she was busy , but just said "Why would that ever happen"
    I then mentioned it would be a great anniversary gift (10 weeks away!!) ... she responded... "Ya but, don't hold your breath"

    Nothing here is exaggerated .... or made up
    So.....I am living a super sexy dream.....yet am concerned I may not get to cum.....
     
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    you are in it now good luck
     
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    Yeah it sounds like you are into permanent chastity. Good luck trying to cum with a prostate massage . I could never make it happen. Got close a few times .
     
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    Good luck with that. Remember in the end you are in charge. If it gets to be too much or she really pisses you off, get rid of the cage. Only you know what your comfortable with. Life is too short to go without being satisfied however you describe it.
     
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    well really you will cum cos it will come out of you but you prob wont know till the morning.
     
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    I am sorry but in my opinion this sounds like ---- fodder yet again, nothing else to say but please be real and honest.
     
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    Last evening I begged for release, I got a "maybe I could let you try an jerk off with numbing cream" which
    in the state I was in seemed like heaven.
    First we needed to go for a walk, then I made Mistress some dinner, when I made it down to our room, she had her bottoms off watching a movie.
    I proceeded to lick her to almost orgasm, then put on my RodeOH's (boxers with dildo over my cage) and fuck her, I was so horny after she had a small orgasm, she instructed me to go out to our van and get the rubber gloves we had purchased earlier, but I was to leave the RodeOH's on. It is a PUBLIC lot !!
    I was still hoping to cum, so I scurried out to the van, grabbed the gloves and scurried back in.. thankfully meeting no one.
    Back in our room, she asked to be fucked some more, and while I was doing that she put 2 fingers in my mouth
    and (as if they were a cock) face fucked me, like deep. My throat is scratchy from he fingernails this morning.

    Mistress had a mind blowing orgasm, told me I did not need to cum, and was being silly. She rolled over and fell asleep.

    I lay there feeling dominated and emasculated... Mistress made her point. No more begging for sex.
     
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    Mistress, told me to be in our billiards room for 6pm, wearing only my shorts. I was thinking all day she might let me cum. Tried to focus on work, it was a struggle all day

    6pm came, she had Spanish lessons for me to do. I was honestly let down.

    We had dinner and then bed, she asked for a back rub
    then we slept.
     
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    Be careful what you wish for. Sounds like your having fun though
     
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    I've been in permanent chastity for over 260 days straight. eventually you will have ruined orgasms. I've had two in that time... ejaculations but with out the orgasmic pleasure
     
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    Mistress offered to "fool around" our secret code for sex !! It was 2pm...mid day
    I was beyond super excited...well over 2 weeks in chastity
    She told me to get into bed..
    .2 seconds later....I was in our bed
    She said lay on your back.....
    Easy access to the lock ...oh ya..I'm going to be free
    Then she put on a rubber glove, and grabbed the lube.....
    She saw my face and just said, What silly? This is how you have sex now.
    She fingered and probed my prostate, but I just couldn't quite get there.
    I mean I tried, I no longer have any shame in how I get to cum...fuck I just want to cum

    Mistress, fingered me past the point of exhaustion...
    She wanted me to cum this way.. I almost feel she's trying to prove a point...not sure what it is...
    My body was racked with orgasms...but no cumming...eventually I had nothing left Mistress stopped and I fell asleep

    Today I'm a little sore......
     
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    you don't get to cum like a true man anymore
     
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    i dont think he is cos he keep moan.
     
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    Well, there you go
     
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    Been pretty quiet the last 2 days, lots of work. Well too much work, I know with Covid I should be thankful, it's just almost overwhelming the amount of projects I have coming from clients.
    Yesterday was 3 weeks in my cage, 3 weeks 4 days without ejaculation.
    It is now Saturday, I just need to stay positive, and grind through this pile of work :)
    I'm hoping work takes my mind off of sex for awhile!
     
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    only 2 ejaculations in 9 months for me, only one of those accompanied by an orgasm, the other a ruined release
     
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    Mistress let me hunt for my key last night, said if I found it, I would be let out..... After hours of looking..no luck
    Today I will be allowed out to shower and shave, or that's what I was told this morning.
    I have lots of work to do, which will help me keep my mind from racing through sexy ideas.

    I'm hoping I will get release, but won't be surprised if I don't.
     
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    You are on the right path I have only two releases since last June on was ruined in February. I was told by mistress her penis will never feel an orgasm again only way will be thru prostate. I feel your pain
     
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    So do you miss fucking your Mistress? I have many times where I want to just bend Mistress over the counter / couch/ car etc and fuck her brains out....
     
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    I get about 2 ruined a year allowed by my KH
     
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    Yes every day but I was always terrible at
    It and on lasted a couple seconds always had better luck doing oral. But it will never happen again and I am 100% good with that because I love her and I know she loves me. Even though she calls me her little sissy slut
     
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    Well, On Sunday I was let out !!! WOOHOOO. I showered and cleaned an shaved.
    Mistress let me cum, while she was finger my prostate, I stroked myself. I came on my tummy. The entire time
    she was describing another guy fucking me.....

    I asked about PIV, she informed me that "Boxer" (dildo and RodeOH boxers) was the only cock for her now
    Her pussy was no longer an option for me.

    I'll admit I was a little bummed out.

    I am allowed out for a few days to be teased an tormented, but she made it very clear, that chastity would happen in 2-3 days.
     
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