I'm a Dom that likes to wear Chastity. Anyone else a Dom who likes Chastity on them? I think it's strange because I love seeing my partner beg and squirm. But, do I want that too? I'm not so sure anyone have an opinion on this that might help me. I haven't passed the threshold of being locked down for more than 24 hours. Thanks in advance..
If you are a dom and like to be in chastity. That might be some sub in yourself who wants to come out? Would you like to have a kh? Would you control that kh for a release? Or maybe you want a dom for yourself but being a dom for subs? Or are you in chastity for the kink of wearing a small prison on your genital and giving yourself some goals of abstinence? Chastity alone is a good tool to experience new horizon. If you wear a cage doesn't mean you need to be a sub. Chastity is a way to control our pulses or enhance our libido too. I don't think chastity is only about subs but males orgasms control.
Yes. There are more dominants into chastity than you might think. Sometimes they are self-locked, sometimes their submissive partner is their keyholder. But be careful what you wish for! Sometimes a submissive partner with a key gets to enjoy the control a bit too much.....
Welcome to our community. I hope you find it useful and enjoyable. I know of at least one member here, who is Dom, to men, but sub to women. So it can happen. Good luck.
Master had a little boy sub inside Him as well. He just had trust issues with other Tops. So He trained me to Top him when he wanted to experience something un-Topish , and i got pretty good at it. Good enough where He wanted me to be the Top Boy in any collection of bottoms! i have many switchty skills now, but my heart belongs to Daddy! Infinite Diversity in Infinite Combination Sir!
Welcome to the mansion, you can love chastity but if you don't hold more 24H it is not a lifestyle but more a sex game (and it's fine) but be welcome here and have fun with your sub.
Kinda I guess I just feel I'm a full Dom. But, I do like to see her try to Dom me. Sometimes though I wish she wouldn't give the key back as easily.
Hello welcome to the mansion.!!! Hope you can pass the 24 hour threshold with help of people here and also enjoy yourself here.!!
Yes, switch speaking here and hence also someone with a strong dominant side. My physical appearance usually underlines that since I'm though of average height but not at all slender. Mylady (who is way smaller) and me very much like the play of the tiny Lady having an overwhelming, powerful but unconditionally obedient "beast" under her control and command. This control is also executed by obvious restraints and tools like ankle and wrist cuffs, solid heavy metal neck collar (or at least a heavy leather dog collar strong enough to keep a raging rottweiler unter control), attached and locked to a corresponding strong chain leash, ball gag and/or muzzle, all of it locked. And - of course - a penis cage, so that all of my powers and forces in all of the thinkable directions are completely under her control and at her disposal. It's not unusual that when I've arrived in that mindspace she likes to fuel and heat up my force and aggression like one does with a combat dog and making me try to lean up and revolt against the restraints (pointless of course) getting more and more upset and ready and willig to fight. Just to test my unconditional obedience with little but sharp, short commands executing her will. In these phases it's also common that she enforces her will with a short but very evil bullwhip. And then it might happen that she's so much in heat that she releases my dick, keeps all the rest under control, especially me leashed and commands "Faß!" (which is the most common German dog command for "Attack!"), which I do, releasing my sexual dominance and start a usually very rough and furious fuck wich she also enjoys very much. In play with a third, passive person all this might start in a similar way (installing absolute control and power via all the means and heating up) but then not necessarily leading to a dick unlock but to a impact and beating/thrashing session where I'm just her willing and obedient power tool executing her superiority in the situation using my own dominant and active side. But still staying in all the restraints clarifying my position. Such a situation with a third passive might also turn into a cuckold/cuckquean scene when she releases me anyway and uses me as a bull for whatever she's up to and a bull might be useful for. We like that quite much. Ciao cw
I'm not a sub but I am in a CNC relationship in which my Wife is fully in control. I have often considered holding someone else's keys. I always thought that holding a Dom's keys and being the arbiter that makes sure his sub is being treated fairly would be interesting. Holding both of their keys even more interesting! Would I ever let them out of chastity at the same time? Hmmm...