I want out...or do I

Thanks. This is what I had hoped for. I just have to figure out how to deal with it. I really like the idea of doing things for her when I feel overwhelmed! Deepen the submission lol

 

Hardest part for me is being so horny that I can't sleep. If anyone's has a cure for that...let me know.

 

This is perfectly normal, it's what most of us need and desire. Welcome to chastity.

 

Funny, I was just thinking about this the other day. She had just gotten off with me soon to follow, but she was exhausted and said I promise in the morning I’ll let you cum.

So the next morning arrived, and I could have woke her, but then I thought, I don’t want to waste 3 months on a ten second romp before she gets up for work. So I didn’t even bother her. Later she said, you missed your chance, I was waiting for u to try, so told her why.

I used to get in at any opportunity, and now I seem to be not wanting to waste my opportunities on quick romps.

 

I agree. Being in my chaste submissive headspace is so comforting after a month or so that I prefer not to cum except in the most rare and sexy romantic situations possible. It's just not worth it.

 

I really love hearing these brief anecdotes from loving husbands. The genuineness just shows through and it's wonderful.

 

Curious to here how it goes for you. Personally, I love the day 1 feeling - satisfied. Days 2-5 are an emotional rollercoaster. Then I start getting wound up until I cant see straight by day 13. It never truly gets easier after but I learn to accept it more and the overwhelming urges come in waves. Unlike the other gents here I would gladly jump at any authorized O. I'm always worried it could be my last.

 

Nach 5 Wochen Keuschheit möchte ich einfach raus. Meine Herrin hilft mir, indem sie jeden Abend Kalis Thet tötet.

 

same here! Since I’m able to achieve this my Madam says there is no need to unlock me.

 

I've been locked in chastity for several years now. Over time my Wife has gotten much more strict. It's not play for her anymore. It's just how it's going to be and I really have zero input on the matter. She will shut down any discussion on unlocks. When I do mention it She lets me know she will keep me locked for the rest of my life and there is zero chance of anything else. "She owns my dick."

I do sometimes have second thoughts about giving control up to another, even if I am hopelessly devoted to her. However at this point I'm just along for the ride and that train is simply not going back to the station.

As they say... be careful what you wish for.

 

I definitely have the back and forth over whether an orgasm is worth it or not. I usually opt for not having one.

 

Beautiful analogy. I'm on the same train, it seems.

 

I, too, am afflicted this way some times. I don't know of a guaranteed remedy, but I seem to have the most luck by trying to focus on something else. I might get up and read or watch TV for a bit. Sometimes I go to the guest bed and the "change of scenery" helps.

 

I find it easier to be horny and sleep in a cage, than without a cage.

Prior to wearing one, by day 5 or so (sometimes day 1-3) I would be so horny and unable to sleep, I'd end up masturbating for a release, just to settle my mind. Now in a cage, even after that point, my brain seems to know there is no chance of a release, so is much easier to get to calm down.

I usually play a mental round of golf, visualising the course and each shot (which is perfect 1-2 under par each hole ofcourse), I rarely get past about 3 holes before I've dozed off.

I made a thread a few days ago about passing up an orgasm. I did get a PIV orgasm the next day as we are still very much exploring what works, but I was only 7 days since my previous PIV orgasm and like a poster above, would rather save it for a meaningful release rather than "waste it".

 

What about an unlock for edging without an orgasm? Isn't it a decent compromise between staying locked and being unlocked for an orgasm, or does it make frustration worse once you're re-locked?

 

well done!

 

Yeah, its an easy game in your head......

Really though, anything that is rhythmic is useful, counting upwards but visualising the number also works.

 

Great posts Lakeman - keep going (the posts and your time locked)!

I am around three weeks in since my last release and my Mistress brought me to the point of orgasm with prostate stimulation multiple times in the cage this weekend. I was begging her to unlock me (she of course didn't) and, when we cooled down, I was begging her to stay locked for a long time. And now around 24 hours later, I am having the most fantastic prolonged buzz. Is this the best feeling ever? Well, maybe, but it comes close!!

 

I get horny again after being locked for about 5 days, when she comes to bed, she always lays face away from me on her side and after 5 days i start to get the urge, i put my arm around her press my caged dick in to her ass dry humping her....she tells me to "stop that, turn over and fuck off over the other side of the bed and leave me alone, you're getting fuck all"....what a gal !