Hello everyone, I am the sub half of a very happy BDSM couple. Domina Monique has given me leave to join this forum. We are a happily married couple who have been into BDSM for a very long time. The slide into female domination or FLR started almost 20 years ago. Monique has final say in our sex life but otherwise we are a strong partnership and team with a great family to raise. Chastity is part of what we do but at the present time it is not full time lock up. We would like to explore again but we both feel a custom device would be required. Monique had me pierced with a PA 8 years ago with the intention of using the piercing as part of device but it never really happened. Chastity at the moment is still with CB 6000 and other cheap devices but they have not been practical for me for long term wear. I find that when I meet people into a BDSM lifestyle I have just met one person in that BDSM lifestyle, everyone seems to have their own stories, kinks, desires and norms and I am looking forward to engage here on this forum to find out more from you all. Kia ora! from Auckland, New Zealand