Hello, there is my long-short story, happy to be a member of chastitymansion.

Hello everyone,

I am happy to be a member of Chastitymansion.com. And I want to actively participate in it.

I registered on the site in 2012, the year I bought my Jailbird chastity cage. I had also followed the very good descriptions for the measurements on this forum and even today, my cage is really very comfortable.

I was a bit of an idiot at the time (and I probably still am, but the extra few years have given me a semblance of wisdom) when I signed up, I didn't realize that the username I chose was my last name with the first two letters of my name! Please don't laugh too much. I know. Well, since embarrassment is probably one of my fantasies, go ahead.

So here I am newly registered with a pseudonym. Whatever, I had never been active since now on the forum. So yeah I'm new and it's probably time for a better start.

What I like about this site, and after digging through the threads, is that it has remained the same year after year. I want to thank L-u-c-y for her iron fist in preserving the clean site of all the trolls who have only for their reason of existence to destroy everything on their path.

I want to thank all the women on this site for their devotion and patience, because even submissive men are insatiable and I suspect we must be exhausting for them often. It is very important to take care of them and to be attentive and to listen. Although, in my case, I don't always understand between the lines. Which is correct or not. But my favorite thing about this site is reading what women have to say.

Men sometimes laugh that women talk a lot. In any case, here, and in many other places, what we see, male big mouths take up so much space with their vulgarity that there is not enough left to hear the female argument.

I find the feminine section on the site absolutely delectable since we men, with our big mouths ready to take the microphone, cannot do it. And when we come across a discussion that we don't agree with, the only thing left for us to do is shut up. Reading what women have to say without our being able to respond as we please, doesn't it reflect what submission is? And is it not in a close idea of controlled chastity?

But what I also like about ChastityMansion is that in the vast majority of mixed discussions, respect for female authority reigns. However, submissives can be themselves, make mistakes and be corrected, but also be genuine without fear.

I also like the Gallery section. Because I can obviously expose like a kid my cock encapsulated in a chastity cage, which I did from the start. Surprising?

I like the construction of the site as it is possible to comment on almost anything, including the images. Among ourselves, in a group, etc.

I was exposed to nudity and pornography by finding my father's magazines when I was 11 years old. One of the magazines, Union (French-Swiss-I'm Quebecois by the way), published plenty of reader stories about their sexual adventure. One of those stories stuck in my head for years: This 19 year old young man was punished bare-butt on his aunt's knees and when he got really bad he had to show up in his underwear, climb up on the table arm on his head. His aunt pulled down his underwear, completely exposed, sometimes with an erection. The story added that sometimes the aunt would get tired and ask her maid to do the job. The young man, being very attracted by this young servant, never ceased to present his swollen cock. You cannot imagine how I dreamed and thought about this fantasy. With a lot of masturbation, you must be guessing. You know, sometimes we don't understand why certain things attract us more than others. This story that I read at the age of 15 has imprinted itself on my consciousness forever.

Then came another big event: I was studying at university in the late 90s and came across pictures of male chastity. That's when my paradigm started to shift. Lock our penis in a cage and leave the key to our keyholder? Wow. I was in seventh heaven. At the time, there was very little information about this practice, the internet was not very advanced, I used ICQ as a chat software and we recorded the xfiles shows on videocassette taking care to weigh on pause to avoid publicity. wow ...

Regardless, chastity at 20 is not the same as at 40. At the time, I was so focused on my orgasms without even knowing it that I had not yet grasped the outcomes of this practice.

After my studies, I got married to an extraordinary woman who still makes my soul grow after 15 years of living together.

I have always had a huge difficulty communicating my deepest fantasies and it is still one of my greatest difficulties so that even today our sex life is not where it should be. My wife is loath to practice chastity, as many I imagine, and when we tried, because we tried, I was the biggest fool, the biggest kid coming in with my big list. of unrealistic fantasies inapplicable in everyday life. My wife being vanilla, to please me, to play as best she could with what she knew. And me with my big paws and my scripts, I left our sexual situation in a state of intimate cutoff.

I am still sad today. I was only 30 years old, insensitive and interventionist in the couple, my wife having a tendency to be childish, our sexual dynamics were destroyed.

My wife had not yet learned to set limits on her husband, and her husband, although he deeply desired to be in a more FLR relationship, acted in control of the couple and the destiny of the marriage. But all is not so dark! We just weren't ready. Well, I wasn't ready. To each are pilgrimage.

Today, I should say that our privacy needs to be rebuilt. I was several years without my cage because my wife did not want to play. I was frustrated with myself and tasted bitter.

Lately I made the decision to carry the cage myself. I have to manage my key but I find chastitymansion a good community to stay encouraged. After all, if you're going to be in an FLR relationship, it's up to us men to naturally make room for our women. Shivering, like a blooming flower, our mistresses will take the place. Let's take advantage of this waiting time to work on ourselves and use our imaginations to become better submissives. My wife doesn't need to be involved in my chastity right now, rather she needs to have a husband who takes care of her. I have to learn to climb one step at a time and a day will come when she will agree to become my keyholder. A day when it will no longer be repugnant to her, filled with more advantage with a good husband.

The cage is an absolutely essential tool for me. It turns me into myself, but better. Like an existing part but in withdrawal which suddenly takes the place. I want to conquer the heart of my mistress, to be a submissive and helpful knight hero.

The cage is a wonderful tool to control my masturbatory madness, I thought that when I will hit 40, it would calm down a little but no .... So 2 to 3 masturbation sessions a day is my reality and with that, a lot of pornographic consumption. Which, as you know, doesn't help our privacy issue at all.

So, for the past week, I have been relaunching myself in chastity, hoping that I will succeed in integrating this practice for good. You can imagine going from 2 to 3 cumshots a day to one a month (that's my challenge to begin with!) Driving me crazy. I included in my signature the tool for calculating the duration of my chastity. This will help me and the CM community.

In everyday life, among other things, I am a funny man, my wife doesn't go a single day without me being able to make her laugh. This is one of my personal challenges. to be able to make my wife laugh every day of our life. I like to be physically active and play sports and am always busy with plans.

This is the end of my 15,000 word testimony. Very happy to be among you.

 

yeah, by rereading it, I got on my nerves.

 

It's already fun and enjoyable. Community and shares are essential. Directions from mistresses are too!

 

Thanks for your support.

 

My wife (she's a businesswoman) told me this week how sometimes she gets exasperated when her employees (often men) repeat the same answer three times as if she couldn't understand the first time. I asked her for an example, she told me: you do it often!

 

Thanks. You're right. I love her. I am very blessed.

 

Thank you.

 

Thank you very much!

 

Nice to know there is Quebecers here!

thank you for your share and encouragement!