ideal time between orgasms for harmonious relationship?

Me having no say in the matter is something we agreed to agree upon before we started down the keyholder - lockee path.

 

There's no magic number to that. Medically, it's safer to have atleast an orgasm every 15 days. Men with lesser orgasms are more prone for prostatic cancer.

Also the number is something that should be discussed between 2 individuals. Some guys/girls are ok with giving up full control. Others might require a release frequently. It's upto then to plan when and how. There's ruined orgasms, pegging, sleep play and other ways.

 

When my penis wasn't behind bars and locked. I would have as many orgasms as I wanted. Either from sex with my Wife or by masturbating. Now that my Wife(KH) has full control over any orgasms I'm allowed, I don't have many. Last year, I might have had 12-15, if I was lucky. My Wife(KH) knows when I need a release. It might be a week or it might be three. It all depends what she wants. She has taught me that nothing I say or do will change her mind. And I'm happy with whatever she allows me.

 

When we are locing me up, its either 1 a week or it might go out to 1 in two weeks if say her period lands on a weekend when PIV would normally happen. Longest period has been 3 weeks.

Theres another thread about timing, but I usually start to ramp up quickly in hornyness after about 4-5 days and remain there until release. There may be a gradual increase after that period, but its most noticeable initially.

As my wife is not 100% committed to a KH role or the chastity lifestyle in general (yet), I am very much on the honour system with locking up and denial etc but I am forever hopeful she will start to exercise some control so remain operating under the same conditions as if she is (e.g even if we have a play session, I don't assume that it will be PIV and wait for her to instruct to remove the cage).

 

You give him a handjob when he's sleeping.

 

I sure would...

 

I would also hope to be not dead enough to wake up during that!

 

I think question is about ideal time between milking... not orgasm. I want that my time between milking was 2 weeks. Chastity slave must live orgasms free

 

Depend on situation...
The good one if both are horny and have same interest unlocking....
But my answer is once per week for me...

 

My experience - and it seems to match with others - is that short lockups are more frustrating. Things settle down after a few weeks. So I'd say if you want to ramp up the passion and adventure, short lockups. However, for harmony, long ones.

 

My wife is fair. She is a hotwife and dates , I'm locked in chastity. When ever she goes out on a date, and the man satisfies her, she will come home describe the date in detail, unlock me and let's me jerk off under her supervision. If she came 2 or 3 times she will allow me the same. But I can't do 3 times , on only 2 times very rarely. Most of the time I can only so one, then can't get hard for days. But she gives me the opportunity.
On the rare occasion when she does herself with a toy, she will then come to my room after she is finished and dressed and unlock me to release myself if I want , and can.
So in our relationship I get just as much sex as she does . Which is fair .

 

I have a urologist who says the very same thing. The body will rid itself of any old/excess without the need for our intervention.

 

@sonhee : It's been many years since I have had a wet dream. I asked about that to my urologist and his reply was that I no longer need to ejaculate at all. (that the fluids are just absorbed into the body)