I am just getting in to the idea of wearing a CB and i have a hard time adjusting to not having control of my cock. Do any of you have any suggestions to help a newly denied person?
sorry to sound cliche but time is the answer. Start slow then add greater periods of confinement. Be very very very nice, to the person who holds the key!
Have you shaved? May seem simple and obvious, but a lot of irritation can be caused by pubic hair. :angel:
no, i have not shaved but i trimed it as short as I could with scissors. I dont like the itching that comes with shaving. Thanks for the suggestion, i need all the help i can get.
You really want to shave! The short trim did not work for me much. Once you get a good shave and maintain it the itching associate with the re-growth seems minimal. Of course if you let it grow out again it will itch. I think my wife likes this part as it makes me keep everything shaved and clean.
I too do not like pubic hair...AT ALL. If you shave all that disgusting hair off and keep it off you wont be troubled with itching. I have never had that problem and neither has My pet. He shaves everyday, and has no itching, and neither do I. Work on it, I'm sure you will be much more comfortable. Mistress Michelle
It's true....a few days irritation getting used to shaving is far better than a lifetime of discomfort from pubic hair rubbing or even worse, getting caught in the CB. It's just part of my daily routine now
I guess will be shaving tonight. I would like to thank every for thier advice. I really dont know what I am doing here. I need all the help I can get.
I shave daily, and there is really no itching at all from regrowth. It's just an extra minute in the shower each morning. Easily done!
I wasn't sure about pet shaving at first, I didn't think I'd like the look, but it is extremely sexy... And yes, if you keep on top of it, it will be easy. For what not to do read THIS!!!! :bigsmile:
LOL, I know not to do that. When I was in the navy, it was the fad in my divison to shave your pubic hair. One of my friends was out of razor's about 1 month out to sea. He decided that he would use the bottle of Nair he was using on his chest. He had a similar experience to your pet. He walked gingerly for about a week.
My advice is simply: patience. It takes a while getting used to not being in control, wondering if your wife/girlfriend is feeling horny but actively denying you any sexual pleasure. Stick with it, the pleasure you will gain from being denied sexual pleasure is undescribeable! :bigsmile:
Shaving I too am shaved. It started just as the pubic area, but my wife like it so much she told me to shave my bum, then my stomach, then chest, etc. Now I am shaved fully from the neck downwards. I never found it irritating at all. I shave in the bath every morning. No gel, no lotions after. The warm water softens averything. It takes me about 15 minutes. But I do have to do it daily. She loves it and is always rubbing her hands over me.
Shaving would help with most devices, but if the lack of control is an issue, don't worry about it. After the first time you are locked up for a couple of months, you won't believe the first orgasm. Then once your device is locked back on, you'll realize how right it feels to have it on. Of course, you may not be so lucky, and may never adjust. In which case, your keyholder will probably laugh as she dangles the key. Have fun, Hoss