New Here, nervous, but want help, advice

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    I am knew here. I am married, but i have an unusual fetish/fantasy that I want my wife to take part in. I have a fetish for womens fuzzy sweaters and want her to dominate me. So i want her to dress me up her fuzzy girly sweaters, then take control and make me her slave, order me around, humiliate me. But she is hesitant. She does not like the idea of me wearing a women's sweater. I try to explain that it turns me on more and that it is not what i want all the time, hoping that will ease her nervousness, even though technically I would love it all the time. When she is away, I do play by myself, dressing in fuzzy girly sweaters and dreaming she would be doing this to me.

    Just need some advice, help in how i can explain this more to my wife
     
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    Hello and welcome to the Mansion. I hope that both of you are able to find some common ground with the help of us Gurls and Guys.

    If you can persuade your wife to spend some time here hopefully both of you will see the great variety of interests we enjoy.

    Your Wife could join in her own rights and get ‘verified female’ status which give her access to area we mere mortals are not allowed

    I hope you enjoy your time here
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Okay, that is a massively specific fantasy. What you have to do, and frankly you may find this difficult, is explain to her where her role fits in, outside the fantasy world you've created for yourself. I often say good luck. In this case I really mean it
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful in pursuing your desires and enjoyable too.
     
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    Yes it's a tricky situation. You certainly can't impose your fetish on her. Sit and talk with her and discuss your fetishes. Obtain Her feedback on what's more comfortable for her. Start from there. You can't have everything right from the beginning. Work with what's she's excited about and then eventually introduce other kinks subtly
     
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