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    Wonder if anyone had good experience of sissygasms and how to do it succesfully.
    Being trying for a while now, caged and uncaged, with butt plug, dildo and viibtators and wands but so far no joy, wondered how other people do it, any suggestions of experiences would be gratefully received.
     
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    Yes, my Wife loves to bring me to such orgasms. My first sissygasm happened after several months of training. Twice in a week She puts on a strap-on and fucks me until i can't no longer physically accept Her.

    My favorite dildo is the Kong by Doc Johnson. With this attachment, She great fills me and reaches my prostate without any problems.

    The fastest way She manages to bring me to orgasm when i lie on my back or stomach. Also, i cum quickly when i'm in cowgirl position. But, i almost never experienced sissigasm from doggystyle.

    Sometimes, when She is in the mood to teach me, She puts on the Bam attachment from the same Doc Johnson.

    This is one of the largest Doc Johnson dildo. I explode with the first sissigasm already at the first frictions and She with pleasure continues to pierce my ass, while i'm is shaking in convulsions. Recently, she was not stop fucking me until i cuming several times with my ass and after that my penis spruiting in a cage.

    An important nuance - the dildo should be made of latex. Cyberskin is generally not suitable for anal sex, too gentle.

    And one more important observation - i've never riched to experience sissigasm from myself. I get such an orgasm only when my Wife fucks me. Moreover, when She does it with very sharp jerks and very cruelly. I'm usually pretty loud during sex. Several times i cried, shaking from orgasms. Fortunately for me, my Wife is used to my reactions and does not even think about interrupting
     
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    We have been into strap-on play for 10+ years but I cannot ooze cum while being penetrated like some of the videos I have seen. I would LOVE to be able to do that because that is so hot to me. With that being said I can use my wife's vibrating wand and hold it under the head of my caged cock and after a few minutes have what I can a ruined "dribble" orgasm. I will leak a fair amount of cum but without the satisfying throbbing and pumping feeling I get from a real stroking orgasm. It helps a little with my horniness but nothing like a real O.
     
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    My Queen uses the king cock chubby its 10inch super huge to fuck me. She can make me anal orgasms doggy style where i produce alot of white creamy all over it. When she puts me on my back and legs spread high in the air she makes my little caged clitty squirt clear liquid all over me and her. But to have a true sissygasm i can do it riding her huge cock reverse cowgirl. It usually only takes about five minites to happen especially when my Queen talks real dirty to me and put her hands on my hips helping to thrust her huge cock deep inside of me. Mind you ive been locked 24/7 for the last 5 yrs except when she wants to use my itty bitty for anal sex which isnt often. The sissygasm has taken me every bit of 4.5 yrs to learn its my only pleasure and release without it being ruint. Ive learnt how to use kegals to do this. Relax as she shoves it in and squeeze with out pushing when she pulls out otherwise it can get a little dirty which doesnt please my Queen. It takes practice and alot of mental mindset to except being a slut for me.
     
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    Enema will help to be clean.
     
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    After many years of "training" I am now able to reach a "full-body-orgasm" just by contemplation plus touching my nipples. It means that I feel that tingle all over my body, my heart goes faster and I drip a little cum. It's completely different from a squirting orgasm. It also lacks the refraction period. So I am able to start the next round immediately after the last.
     
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    How the training was
     
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    I try to give a short explanation ...

    I start by touching my nipples (which seem to be directly wired to my prostate) and I focus my mind on my anus region. The "hard" thing is NOT to focus on my penis. FORGET about your penis whenever possible! It might be easier when your penis is locked and can't get hard.

    I appreciate all kind of sensations - no matter if they are just nice or lead towards an orgasm. I appreciate them in the very moment and don't try to achieve anything. Whatever I get IS the achievement already. Whatever you TRY will not come.

    When my mind goes to my penis I think: "this is very normal but now I move my focus back to my bum where it belongs"

    Whenever I experience a tingle in my chest or belly, I focus on that sensation which means I move my focus away from my anus (imho, you can't focus on more than one body region at a time)

    When I am lucky that tingling sensation in my chest becomes stronger and my pelvic muscles start to contract. In this moment it IS difficult to keep my focus on my chest and not focus on my penis - but this is the important part: don't focus on your penis. Your penis is not important. The sensation comes out of your chest, your belly, your whole body.

    Of course I reach a whole-body-orgasm much easier when I had stayed chaste for a few weeks time. This orgasm is a very powerful reason not to ejaculate too often.

    Enjoy and don't give up easily ... it takes time ... it took me many years but as it is a lot if fun I don't mind.
     
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    Such a minute level description.
    Thanks
     
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    I think it’s different for each person on how they achieve it, for me being on all fours is better, and I orgasm harder and faster if my madam is using A dildo on me rather than a strap on, and the faster she goes, the quicker I orgasm.
     
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    Agreed, in that you must forget about her cock, and concentrate on experiencing pleasure thru your anus.
     
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    Well although my wife fucks me with her strapon i still cant have a sissygasm, i want my cock to dribble without touching it
     
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    Haven't had full blown hands free orgasms since I was a teen. As I matured, it has become more difficult to replicate. I still enjoy being penetrated by myself or my partner, but the orgasms I have are different. I feel extreme pleasure but the fluids I produce are mostly dribbles of a precum/cum mixture. Unless a wand is applied to my cage at the same time.
    Not sure if you would call it a sissygasm, but...
    My strangest experience was after a month of being locked. I was applying pressure to my prostate with a glass dildo. After a quick 5 minutes of milking and releasing some fluids and pressure, I was satisfied and removed the dildo. As I sat there for a minute, my groin went into involuntary spasms. I felt no pleasure but stream after stream spewed out of me. I can't explain how it happened, but I've never felt more out of control of my own body.
     
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    That is really wild! I would love to experience that for no other reason Than to post about it!

    I have had a small handful of hands free orgasms. The first was the first time with a strapon. My mind was blown from every direction with what was happening and that my GF was enjoying it and I lost control right in the bed.

    One time also with the NJoy pure wand I was able to achieve this as well. I don’t get much alone time to explore these days so they remain a very elusive pleasure these sissygasms!
     
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    Now thats what i'd like to be able to do,
    Thanks for that
     
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    I've had a few in my life. For me it seems like things have to be perfect. The right mood, the right mind set, and the right technique.

    I have been experimenting with anal pleasure since I was 12. I started with fingers and worked my way into other things until I was old enough to get toys.

    I tried one of those toys that promises sissygasms and it did nothing for me. It did teach me how to do kegels really well though. I practice kegels all the time. I think that'd what they call em... not sure but it's the same thing. Flex your anus muscles and nothing but the hole. Get good at it. That toy I was able to suck it in and push it out after time and practice.

    When I play with a dildo, I flex on it. I get it right at the sweet spot, flex my kegels, and then with short thrusts I go in and out. Like an inch... I flex and it's right at the point where I'm flexing and it'll go past that spot and then before that spot in small thrusts and it just hits a good spot that feels good.

    Just go with how you feel. It seems the same for me. I work myself with short thrusts and get it to a point where I want more. I flex hard and end up pounding with larger thrusts and then my body takes over the flexing. It'll start to convulsed and flex on its own and I keep pounding through it. Sometimes I get a full body orgasm with leakage and other times it's so uncontrollable that I cum hands free. Today was the first day I've done it with a cage on.
     
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    I bet it feels good
     
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    From my reading, this is a skill some have, and some do not. Don't push it, I'd say
     
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    I feel like i'm missing out :(
     
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    The only way I have been able to have a legit sissygasm with ejaculation is when I sit on a dildo and bounce on it. And even then, its not every time. My mind has to be in the PERFECT place. And it takes a while to get there. I need to be in a very patient mood.

    When it happens though....and its not often...but when it does...it is really fun. My entire body gets jittery after.
     
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    You might want to read the article I ran across.

    Guide to achieve a sissygasm

    by PJ235 10 months ago

    In my experience this will work for most sissies

    Well chastity is an important part of the process to get a sissy to achieve a sissygasm. The first one is always the hardest to get after that it becomes much easier. I usually don't let my Sissies cum for a month before trying seriously to give them the sissygasm. I also let them watch porn and fuck their pussy with a dildo but nothing with a vib in it.

    For the actual attempt I instruct them to shower and be clean inside and out also I give them 1 shot or strong drink before we start to get them relaxed. I also have them drink water and not pee for several hours before we play.

    I usually don't try to fuck them for their first sissygasm I find it easier to use a toy to ensure the job gets done. I usually use a 6-8inch vibrating dildo with a very pronounced head. I work it in slow but doesn't have to be deep the prostate is about 4 inches deep so I work the dildo 3-5inch in with an occasional full deep thrust.

    As you work the pressure will start to build in her. She will think she's about to piss herself but she won't that's the beginning stages of a sissygasm just keep going. The reason I have them drink and not pee is because I think that a full blatter helps get her there faster by pushing out the prostate and apply pressure to it. You can also push down on her blatter to hit the prostate better.

    The next phase is the quivers she will start to shake uncontrollably you are almost there at this point so you need to keep going. To help push her over the edge have her push down on her blatter and you put pressure on her taint this will make most sissies pop instantly in the quiver stage. If you need a little extra you can also blow on their clit like you are trying to cool a bowl of soup.
     
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    Same........
     
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    The only thing I do different is I cant have a full bladder. She is correct, prostate play DOES make it feel like you have to pee as it is...if I actually HAD to pee it would be too much for me and would distract me
     
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    For myself I have achieved it a few times what helps me is

    1 ) don’t jerk off for 3 weeks it will make your pp fill up with cum quicker

    2 ) use a dildo in multiple positions for me standing up against my door only works for me

    3 ) go extremely slow don’t rush it you will ruin the moment

    4 ) when you feel a pressure building you can see if your leaking precum

    5 ) keep going at the same speed it may take a while depending on you

    6 ) being caged and dressed up helps for some not for me

    7 ) watch interracial porn while you ride your dildo
     
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