How long have you been denied an erection?

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    No unlocking at all, not even for a deep clean or whatever.

    My previous longest continually locked, with not relase as all, was 6 days until yesterday when it became 7, and today it's 8 day, and every day from now on is a record. It already seems like a long time to me to be without the loving grip of my hand around my cock, or even a full on erection, but there it is.

    Exciting times, well, for her at least. My excitement is contained haha.

    What's the longest you have gone without an erection?

    What happened at the end of that time? Did the little guy function or was he a bit shocked?

    Any regrets?

    Curious minds need to know :)


    (Let's keep it real. If you wish to share your fantasy story about being chained naked in a subzero basement for 500 days while being used by college girls for ballkicking and pegging practice, all while living off a scrap of bread, there are thread for that and this isn't one of them haha, yet)
     
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    Right now I'm on day 37, observing Lent for several years but won't be let out until day 46.
    Have done Lent several times, each between 40 days minimum and 46 days maximum
    Have done Locktober several years, each time is 31 days
    Have gone 100 days 1 time
    Have gone 122 days 1 time.

    Max time without an orgasm is 100 days, but was given several caged orgasms after 75 days of the 120.

    Also, each time is locked with no release whatever, when the key is turned its until the end of the agreed window. In fact, the lock failed and had to be drilled out for release.

    Little guy did function, but real quick on the trigger.

    Have regret when I agree to long term over 30 days as the key is being turned, but once in kind of adapt to the situation. Plus I am still expected to be a good lover and give her everything she desires while I am teased and denied. The last couple of days before release, I kind of get squirrely and can't wait for release.

    My average lockup is 14 days with a milking at days 7. My wife enjoys sex so I get out for a night of pleasure and then once I say I am finished and she agrees, it goes back on.
     
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    A couple of years back, I did 11 months. Now I'm sealed into an even more practical device and 3 months into what is likely to be at least a year.
     
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    I recently went 81 days in my Bijou without being allowed any erections. It is maddeningly emasculating and a total mindfuck. IMO, being denied erections is mentally more challenging than being denied orgasms.

    My KH released me "for a stretch" last Saturday. My little friend was a like a groundhog emerging from his burrow... very tentative. He refused to cooperate with me and remained inert. However, when my KH asked him to rise he most certainly did! She began to edge me and within seconds I was on the brink. She stopped and said "I don't want to press my luck. We can't afford any accidents".
     
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    You guys are HARDCORE, literally heroes amongst us!

    I kind of told my GF/KH that I want to experience 90-120 days of total denial due to breaking habits, spermatogenesis, spirituallity, and for the lols coz why the fuck not, hey YOLO.

    I kind of hope my GF can hold off for the duration just because my ridiculously stupid curiosity is driving me, plus I clearly have some masochistic tendencies I need to work through otherwise why would I even entertain it.

    But what is on the other side of such denial? Oviously we are all different and so there is no one-size-fits and that is okay. I hope to find out *for me* of course.

    It's nice to know things have still functioned after such a long periond of hibernation. I hope my little guy plays along when my love finally releases him.

    A short fuse is entirely unsprising I suppose. I did tell my GF that come the day where her craving D is too much that she might want to ruin an orgasm or two of mine before climbing on or expecting me to pornstar fuck her haha. She said she might not release me, which I hope is bravado because after 8 days all I can think about is hardcore fucking her.
     
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    Only about 25% of women get off on dick. You may find that she's more enthusiastic about keeping you locked than you expect.
     
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    Certainly, she loves to cum with my fingers and a wand, but thankfully also she loves the D which I hope she doesn't forget about in the next few months ha!
     
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    The longest without taking my cage off for anything has been 7 days. When I was shaving down there, I would have to shave every 3-4 days. And I'm a clean freak, so if my cage starts to smell...It comes off for a cleaning.
    As far as erections go, I have gone 40 days without getting a full blow hard on. Most of the time, my Wife(KH) will let me free every 5-6 days, tease me long enough to get to full erection state for a minute or two, let me get soft and then cage it back up. So far(This is our third year of MC), It doesn't take much to get hard after being released from my cage. I have no regrets at all...Maybe one....Wish we would have found out about cages 20 years ago, my Wife(KH) has told me, she would have lock my penis up years ago, if she would have know about such a device.
     
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    I’m lucky, I’m out every few days for a stretch, the longest I’ve gone is 8 days without an erection. Right now we’re in a rhythm of I’m locked every day but released for sex Fri night through Sunday night, my orgasm isn’t guaranteed. I told my Wife / KH that I had 9 orgasms in March and she gave me a look and said we need to cut that number down.
    So could be a fun trip coming up
     
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    It's kind of hard for me to believe, but it's been about 1yr 4mos now since I've been allowed to have an erection....the last time I was allowed to release. It was a ruined orgasm. I was told then that it would be my last for a very long while. At the time, I didn't realize that would apply to erections as well.

    However, I have only been locked for 96 days as of today. I am allowed to take it out occasionally for certain medical exams or procedures, usually prostate related. I wear MCN's Contender, which generally allows for good enough cleaning & hygiene without the need to unlock. When I am allowed to unlock, I use that time for more thorough hygiene, but I am under strict instructions to not stimulate it or even handle it unnecessarily.

    That is certainly not easy, but I am committed to pleasing Mistress in this regard.

    I agree 100%! At this point, I think I would rather have an erection than an orgasm, but of course once started down that road, it may be hard to stop! LOL

    I was told today that I may unlock for the day next Monday, our "anniversary." No touching, though. No stimulating it. This is going to be tough. I wonder if I will be able to comply? Mistress did say this could be my last and to "enjoy" it. LOL. I think the lockups may become longer, and thus time without an erection longer as well. Yikes!

    Well, if I don't like it, I can leave our arrangement. Apparently, I like it! hehe
     
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    Which numbers would you choose for no orgasms at any time and no unlocking at any time @Rectrix ?
     
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    fantastic now thats real chastity i hope to achive total perminant chastity for the rest of my life
     
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    31 days! Locktober 2020.
    My wife doesn’t like being denied piv!

    After unlocking, the first night was ok! It was the second one the next morning that was explosive!
     
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    My last ‘erection’, if you can call it that, was 27 February. I was unlocked for about 7 minutes so that Mistress could make me cum. Immediately afterwards I was locked.
     
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    37 days is the longest Ive had to endure without any unlocking. I was not a happy camper and agree that no erections are harder than no orgasms (forgive me but I couldnt resist the pun).

    She likes to play with her toy and only did that to teach me a lesson (it worked).
     
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    currently....
    20191104 - last time I 'touched' myself - following that, my next session transition involved being fully bound and 2 quickie hand-jobs on 20200101 after which I was promptly recaged..
    20200208 - last orgasm - a repeat of the previous encounter before COVID 'happened', changing the world, as well as my sexual release...
    20210111 - last erection - end of session, teased and relocked..
     
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    I hope you do enjoy your erection. Having over 16 months of erection denial “under your belt” in your MCN Contender is impressive.

    It’s difficult to be told your last was your final. I had that experience last year, regarding me ever touching myself again. I don’t know what it would be like if she told me my next ... will likely be my final.

    My wife teased me beforehand that my orgasm on New Year’s Day might be my last one. It remains to be seen if it’s my final.

    She likes to keep things indefinite.

    I do believe I could wear my MaleChastityNow cages forever. I’m just feeling grateful the my wife prefers the GlansArmor2 and I get to have a stifled erection. But she’s using the Contender more lately.

    Anyway I’m in awe and I’d love to hear more about your possibly final erection on Monday @Kat9s toy
     
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    Oh, cut the new guy some slack. You know how excited they get when they discover it. :)

    Besides, a graph is like a photograph, just a picture of a point in time.
     
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    My longest was 5 weeks buts into been a while since I’ve been locked that long.
     
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    27 days at this point. That was the last time I was unlocked where I got an erection. I unlocked to clean for an hour or so and didn't get an erection at that time.
     
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    That's what my Wife(KH) likes...A quick erection, orgasm and back in the cage...Seven minutes...I wish. And sometimes I don't even get a full erection. She allows me masturbate, while she watches, I have a orgasm and back in the cage...3-5 minutes, if I'm lucky.
     
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