Sleeping tips

Just persevere. After a few nights you'll not even notice it's there (until it does its job).

 

I agree with lumm, I've been locked up for a week now and the first 3-4 days were tricky and uncomfortable and sleep was not easy but then it gets easier and last night I slept like a log without getting any major wood. Stick with it, you'll get there.

 

my tip wud be to ask if you can have another cage cos them ones hurt if you has them on for a long long time.

 

I think many of us have been where you are. You need to stay in your belt and power through the head game it's playing on you. As a side sleeper it's no problem. Stomach sleepers will have an issue wearing a cage and trying to lay on their stomachs.

I have been wearing chastity belts for a very long time. To this day, if I have been released from my cage for a few days, the first night back in is always the same. I like to refer to it as cage fighting. The cage always wins! My body wants to push against the bars and it causes me to toss and turn. My wife knows the signs and will ask, "cage fighting last night"? I answer yes and she gets a huge smile on her face. She once told me, her greatest joy is knowing my cage is on duty 24/7/365. I would also agree with that joyful feeling

If you're feeling no pain I would suggest to just keeping it on. Who knows, maybe your future KH will not be so understanding to allow you to remove it. !!

I will add, it does get easier. Good luck!

 

well lots of folk on here says that the holytrainer is nice and comfy

 

You’ll get used to it. For everyday wear have one that is comfortable and allows for a LITTLE growth. IMHO the penis needs some blood flow at night to maintain physical integrity. You still cant cum so isnt that the point so why torture your member using too small of a cage to where it hurts? The other morning I awoke to horrible pain! My nite time erection+Cage+PA ring got all crossed up inside n had to come off. Thought the end of my dick was getting torn off! So off it came but the point is... have fun with it n dont use it as a medieval torture device.
Now..... on the other hand when the fancy for that too small device is upon me, then I do have them but use em for a day kink. I like a nub n a ring with an Arc Ring to lift n tighten the testicles at same time. Just no way I could maintain that full time like some do.

 

-Restrict fluids in the evening to lessen night time urination.
-Get a better cage than a 6000 series (most of us have a drawer full of cages that didn’t work out).
-Once you start getting used to it, don’t sleep without it or it will set you back.
-initially if you are having issues, only wear at night and or times you may be likely to masturbate.
-buy a Kitchen Safe timer lock so you can have defined times you are without access. If there is an emergency, it will cost you $60 to replace box so it will help add discipline.
-avoid porn and erotica to keep your hormones in check and reduce frustration.

 

I don't like wearing a cage overnight but you can get used to it

 

The nub is super intense for me at 4 in the morning. I didn't know I had such strong nighttime erections. Been wearing it for a couple of days now and have had to take it off every single morning bc it is too painful.

 

Night 4 last night realized I've been so tired in the day due to night fighting. I had to take it off after a 2 hour priapism at 5:40 am. Will this set me back in getting passed the night fighting. I was worried about getting an edema which would definately set me back

 

What a lovely post. So real. Thank you. I just love it when I hear about real couples struggling and overcoming real chastity issues. A huge smile on my face.

 

The big question is how long have you been wearing the device, did you ease into it or rush right in. I found in the beginning it took time to get accustomed, an hour for 2 days, then 2 hours, then 4, 8, 12 to 15 for a few days. Then I went to trying over night for 2 days and built up from there. My original breaking was done over 2 weeks and 4 straight 15 hour days before going overnight. Lastly, I found metal far more comfortable than the plastic.

 

I'm also new.
So i can report on my observations. The first night when i got the cage i sleept 1 hour at max. It wasn't hurting at all, i think it was more of a brain thing. I knew that it was there at that alone functioned as a "sleep stopper"
The next time when i tried it was not a big deal at all. Lay in bed and sleept 6 hours straight. Also i thing more then 6 yours are hard to achieve for me. Because that is the amount of time after which the morning wood starts. It is not super painful but quite distracting. Normally when that happens i decide to pee, and go back to sleep or shower and start the day.
I also noticed that when i wear the cage, i normally tent to go in bed earlier, because deep inside me i like that i will wake up on behalf of my penis.
Maybe if you wan't to sleep with cage, you should have worn the cage the whole day to have some kind of trust and comfort.

When i got my cage, the first times it where only some hours i wore it. A few days later, after 3 days of wearing it was very uncomfortable, so i took it off. I guess the discomfort was mostly in my mind. Had the feeling that i have to be free.
I was also at that time that i thought i'm finished with chastity. Only 2 days later i had the desire to wear it again.
That was for 8,5 days, still caged.

 

it tooked me ages and ages and i keeped wakey up but now i dont and i sleep ok until the alarm wake me up.

 

You should also try it at a time where it is less important that you are 100% rested the next day. A Friday or Saturday night (if you have weekends off) may be enough time to acclimatise to the cage.

You could also try and making sure you have a release on the day you try, whether that is alone or with your other half.

 

Agree with the other posters, you just need to stick to it and your body will adjust to it. It’s just takes some time.