Penis size

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by <3 28, Apr 1, 2021.

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How big are you

  1. Under 4 inches

    31 vote(s)
    11.3%
  2. 4 to 5 inches

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    19.0%
  3. 5 to 6 inches

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    40.5%
  4. Six to 7 inches

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  5. Seven plus

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  1. <3 28
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    I always thought I was pretty small. But after a bit of research for strapon I now wonder.
     
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    I was 7.5 before I started chastity, now only a little above 5.
     
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    I was right there at six......years of off and on chastity and I am around 4.5. I think if you do chastity long enough, you WILL see some shrinkage. Your mileage may vary.
     
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    I have just measured 80mm or 3.2inch.

    I didn’t measure myself before we started in Chastity so I can not say. My wife believes is was about 165mm 6½ inches.
     
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    I'm a bit under 3" now, there has been definite shrinkage over the past few years without any orgasms/erections. The biggest change though is in girth, its probably decreased by 50%, I have quite a thin shaft now. My Wife (KH) is overjoyed that I will need a smaller cage soon, which makes me very happy!
     
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    5.75”..... used to be 6. Im happy as it fits my hand well!
    now I just wanna know whose got those monster dicks of 7” n bigger! Im not jealous! Lol
     
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    Assume you mean erect! There is quite a difference between that and soft!
     
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    Are we supposed to do flaccid or erect?
    I will do the short and the long of it. Lol.

    15 to 20 mm on up to 75 to 80 mm.

    It sounds longer in metric.

    Come to think of it, I guess I could have voted "under 4 inches" either way. DOH!

    My motto is: Small is the new big.

    That's how I make myself feel like I am a contemporary. Lol.
     
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    I think I have responded to similar threads on this subject!
    Age and weight gain have more to do with shrinkage!
    As a 20 something I was a solid 6”, but I also weighed 185 lbs. most of my 6” is still there but is hidden by extra weight!
    Age plays a major role here as well! As we males age some shrinkage is natural. Mother Nature can be so cruel!
    I am now about 4 1/2” fully erect! I have gone from “not so deep” to “is it in yet”!
    Is it no wonder I keep it locked!
     
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    I'm no porn star (well, nothing published anyhow), but between 7-8 inches and a bit wide (which makes finding a good fit hard on the off-the-shelf cage topic). Seriously, no benefit whatsoever for being over 5-6", since going in full depth hurts her.

    Regardless, as long as it's caged, it's much smaller.
     
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    I started out before chastity around 6 while I was locked I got down to just under 4. Have been free now for a month and am back to 6
     
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    It is a challenge to determine how much of it is normal aging.
     
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    I think many men see porn and think the average is the guy with 8 - 10 in the movies when in reality, that is a pretty small segment of the statistical curve.
     
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    My shrinkage is age and blood pressure med related but back to its original side after dose of Sildenafil. As far as penis size, my 5"-6" (depending on the day and other factors) is quite average. We were swingers going back 20 years or so ago and nearly all the guys were about the same with a few being smaller. The one set of hosts used to bring in a few extra guys to satisfy several wives kinky desires and 2 of them were ringers. They were there as studs, over 6'4", all muscle, tattoos, long hair, PA piercings. and about 9" and thick. They were the exception to the rule and only a few wives were able to take a pounding from them, in fact a few were scared of the bad boy image. Funny, most of the husbands wanted their wife to take on the guys.
     
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    When soft, I found it was difficult to get a cage to stay in place, because there wasn't anything to hold it there. When erect, unimpressive. I worried about that, when younger, but still managed several kids. My ex seemed satisfied. My wife now insists she's never had another, so has nothing to compare, but feels it's adequate. She's willing to make fun of it as a way of throwing me a bone (pun intended). She also asked me, when we first had sex, if it was in, and didn't understand that the question wasn't complimentary.

    Now, I don't think she cares so much, and I suspect she fakes it...but she tries to get it over with. Then she sits on my face. For that, I'm grateful.

    I did have some feelings of inadequacy when younger, about size. Now, I don't really care. My self worth is not based on the size of my genitalia. I take a little more satisfaction at being teased about it.

    Perspectives.
     
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    In my prime and hard I was 6 1/2 inches and not the thick. I always thought I had a small penis. But over the years of playing hockey and being in many dressing rooms, I have seen my share of many sizes. Some guys were bigger and some smaller. Now I'm 60's and wearing a cage, I don't care how big or small I am and my Wife(KH) sure doesn't care. My hard days a few and far between. Age and meds can really put a twist to size also...
     
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    You should have listed shorter lengths. Haven't seen 4 inches in a long time. Excuse the pun.
     
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    Me either. Should have let us vote starting at a half inch(where some of us start at), and incrementally by the half inch.

    Then we could create quite a detailed demographic of low side/high side numbers.
     
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    7 inches when I started a year or so ago, 7 inches last time I checked. I guess I'll let you know in a few months.
     
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    I am pretty sure the measurements being asked about are when erect.

    The penis is not a muscle, there isn’t s no muscle tissue, the erect size is dependent upon the maximum material length and the ability for capillaries to carry blood into and expand that material. It doesn’t “waste away” like muscle on a coma patient. The capillaries may not expand normally for many reasons, blood pressure, medication, or lack of use. Once they expand on a regular basis, are pliant enough to expand fully, it is back at full mast.

    You don’t shrink. It is still the same size, just less volume to expand it. You can say that since you barely let it out enough for it to get back to normal, it seems smaller than it was. I fall into that category.

    As for what constitutes big or small...I go with capitalism and the free market. I went online once to look for a toy my size. The closest I found was an inch larger than me which also came with a disclaimer that it wasn’t intended for actual insertion, and the selling point was that it was “great as a gag gift”. The majority were 6 or 7 insertable inches or 8 inches usually classified as large.

    I’ve been in my cage for well last vet 3 months, and if I unlocked and measured my erection I doubt it would get up to 3 inches. If I was allowed free for a week or two it would give back to my original 4 inches.
     
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    i was 5 inches erect when we got started in male chastity. i am now under 3 inches. Long term chastity and hormones. Was worth it as i now have breasts.
     
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    Like most others on the effect of the cage. Pre-cage, was about 7.5". After 2.5 years caged 24x7 with only a few hours of release every 3 months or so, I've lost about an inch in length, though most who leave the cage off for a month or more say they get their "normal" length back. I'm fairly girthy, that hasn't changed at all.

    The loss of length doesn't bother me: my wife has always gotten more from my girth (indeed, at my full length I had to be careful not to bang her cervix, which experiences as unpleasant pain), and since our sex life, always good, has bee steadily improving since e started chastity, no complaints!
     
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    I can't really be bothered getting into this argument again, but can I reiterate that permanent shrinkage through cage wearing is a myth.
     
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    Thanks Lester. If replying to me, didn’t mean to suggest otherwise — I believe y’all. Just haven’t gone without cafe long enough to see it return to full length.
     
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    As a submissive white male slave, i believe in FEMALE SUPREMACY, MATRIARCHY AND GYNARCHY. My cock measures 7,2 inches, but i desserve and i need to be locked up in a short and small chastity cage by a superior GODDESS. I am looking for a FLR under official slavery contract 24/7/365.
     

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