Hello, I am new here! My husband recently requested we try a male chastity device. He has a masturbation habit that is out of control. I am honestly just trying this to help him explore his kink. Truthfuly I have lots of questions and he has a general idea of what he wants out of this I on the other hand feel unsure. Thank you!
Hello and Welcome to the Mansion, There are lots of interesting point of view here to help with your enquiries, I feel sure that your question will be answered.
Welcome and it is a great place to learn. Get verified by Lucy then you can ask on the Ladies only section
Mrs Chaste wishes we'd discovered chastity years earlier! She wouldn't have it any other way now! Like most blokes it was my idea in the first place. There are many advantages for the Lady (according to Mrs Chaste). Hope you both have fun!
Welcome Mrs. G. I hope your questions are all answered and you get to discover the advantages of helping him get his masturbation habit under control with your supervision.
Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion enjoy your stay here. There is a lot of help and information here.
Just like to add my welcome to all the others above. This is a very safe, friendly and welcoming site so I'm sure you'll quickly make lots of friends. People are always willing to be helpful, answer questions and okffer advice if asked. My wife and I have been 'playing' with this lifestyle for many years.If there's anything specific you'd like to ask please feel free to message me.
Welcome and hope you get to understand better and get the assistance you require. You will find each of us is here for many reasons and if uncaged nearly all of us will continue masterbating. I could have incredible sex with my wife one day and the next day rub one out for the hell of it. we enjoy her controlling my orgasms and her in a dominant position in our “bedroom” life. I enjoy sex and orgasms and she will provide them to me every week or two unless we have agreed on an extended lockup. Our daily life does not exist on an FLR, but sex does. We are equal in the marriage and responsibilities and use chastity as a way to spice things up. In that way we are committed to the lifestyle and it helps us get thru this crazy time. you will find people here who explore the feline side of the male, have true FLR lifestyles, or may even be sadistic to the male organ. None of them are wrong and each is right if that works for you as a couple. You just need to find your niche and respect boundaries. Life is too short not to explore all things.
Welcome and it is great that you are willing to explore his kinks but think about your needs also. Some here want to be locked long periods others just want to stop masturbating and be more into their wives. My wife was also extremely hesitant but when she found the benefits of me not masturbating or pressuring her for sex and letting her decide when, she loved it for herself not me. Make sure your husband knows and understands your needs and desires and you might find this can be for both of you not just for him.
Hello Mrs G, and welcome.Caging is a great startbto stop wanking! For sure! Enjoy this journey and kink with him.
Hi and welcome. If he has a masturbation habit that is out of control, is that his view or yours? Either way it does not necessarily mean it is a kink. He may be asking to try a male chastity device because he would really like to stop masturbating. It can be hard on a man to be driven by his constant need for orgasm. I suggest you agree to help him, select a device that he can wear comfortably, let him get used to it then take the keys. Only let him out when you want to have PIV. He should pleasure you as much as you want, there is no need to unlock him while he does that. Good luck and let us know how you get on.
Welcome. Out of control self pleasuring was the reason the brought my wife and I to chastity. You will find lots of great resources here. Enjoy.
You should be happy that your husband has been honest with you about his masturbating, because it's selfish and distracts from his attention to you and is a fence in his intimacy with you. Dont view chastity as a kink; for a masturbator, and especially for a wife, it's a tool, and one you should gladly use to improve the closeness of your marriage. When he cant sneak off and satisfy himself in a way that doesn't involve his emotional connection with you you'll find that he'll need to become closer to you. Good luck, use the tool.