Hi all, Having been a long time lurker, now just signed up and wanted to introduce myself. My wife and I have been together for about 8 years. She’s naturally dominant and has always been in charge of our relationship. We’ve always had what I know now to be an FLR, although a fairly moderate one I suspect, we just didn’t call it that. We are just who we are where she naturally leads and I am submissive to her. We both have busy jobs and I think she relaxes by maintaining her dominance at home whereas submission for me is a form of escape and relaxation away from stress. We’ve played with chastity as a kink on and off for the last 5 years or so but it’s never lasted longer than a week or so as she always felt guilt at denying me. It would then be put away for long periods. However recently, there has been a change and she has wanted me caged for longer periods, serving her and focusing more attention on her in every way. She’s seems to have grown more comfortable with the idea and is keen to explore further. How often or how long I am in chastity will, of course, be up to her. Anyway that’s just a bit about us as we continue to learn.
Hello and welcome I really hope you are able to find what your looking for, enabling both of you to continue your journey
Hi and welcome. The chastity lifestyle is a great way for you to take things to the next level. Do you currently have a device suited to longer term wear? If not perhaps you should suggest she help you shop for one. You already know she has an interest in keeping you locked longer. It’s a great ice breaker into discussing both of your interests and thoughts about how to move forward.
Hi and welcome! Sounds like she's ready to take more control of you. Like suggested , if you don't have a device you can wear long term, maybe she can help you in selecting the right one she likes and wants to see you in. It'll be amazing having your wife take your measurements
Thanks all for welcome. We have a device which we think will work for longer term wear but it will be trial and error together for a while I think.