Strange being out of chastity ?

I totally understand what you're saying.

As someone who's locked up most of the time, being cage free feels strange. When I'm allowed out of my belt, after a day or so (as much as being free feels good) I want to be back in my cage. It's like my security or something. Sitting to pee is the new norm. Standing feels so strange now after so many years.

Unlike you, after I get to cum I don't want back into my belt right away. Seems we all suffer from 'sub drop" after a sexual release. My wife has a way to cut down on my submissive recovery time.

Good for you in wearing your belt. I think you'll always have that connection to your wife. I would be doing the same thing as you if the tables were turned.

 

It does feel odd not to have it on, especially after being in it for months. I'm currently uncaged but remaining chaste. But it doesn't have the same impact. I did lock up quickly after my last release, even thought i wasn't eager to do so, i knew it would be better to handle my 'sub drop' that way.

 

I like to have my cage on all the time. I became a part of me. Eventhough I love it so much when I am released from it for emptying my balls I dont want to get back in it right away.
I need at least a good nights sleep and ask for it from my wife. In the morning When I wake up I feel strange and empty somehow and put it back on.
Therefore PIV sex is getting less and less for us. This works well for me. As long as I empty my balls somehow, I am very happy to be in a cage

 

Being uncaged after extended us is strange. I just had 3 hours for Doctor visit and felt odd.

Was glad not to have it on at Doctor but went by house and locked up before we did our other errands.

 

Damn.....that's heartbreaking. I think there is some mourning that you are working through. I hope time heals your wound soon.

 

Sorry for you're loss. I cannot imagine loosing mine been married 39 years. She restarted use of chastity Xmas. Trying to work ourselves back to allow her to trust me being close.

 

So sorry for your loss...
I agree 100% with strange feeling being uncaged. And I just started. After a week on and couple days off, I miss the secure feeling...

 

Hard to explain the secure feeling our cages give us. My wife calls my cage my "protection". I do think of it as such.

 

yes it feel ever so funny not have a cage on now.

 

So sorry about your wife
It has got to the point where I dred taking it off ,doctors or flights it is part of my life now ...I use to beg to get out for a bit
Strange how your mind works lol

 

I was in the bath this morning, and stopped to look in our mirror. I was naked, except for my little dick hat secured by it's PA. I've let my hair grow out very long and it was a bit wild and unkept from sleep. It hung down over my eyes and around my ears and neck. Of course I'm waxed and shaved everywhere else. I'm middle-aged and have a bit of a man bod, but, I realized that men like me are attractive with their cages. Like sexy, and really attractive.

If I was a woman I would insist that my man stay naked and locked around the house. I was genuinely entranced by the effect. It was as if this shiny stainless steel turned me from so-so guy to a chiseled male porn star.

When my Miss entered the shower to be washed by me, I dutifully followed her in. Once I was done with her hair, I commented that I thought men wearing cages was actually hot and maybe all men should wear them. She just said, "Well, yeah, of course" like I had just figured out 2 plus 2 was 4.

For me, it was a genuine revelation. For her it was like, "Yeah my sub hub just figured out the appeal to me of that thing after having it locked on his dick for the last few years".

 

It is very strange not wearing a cage even though I am self locked. Unfortunately despite vigorous cleaning regime every day I contracted an illness and due to covid restrictions ended up in local A and E. After lots of usual tests they diagnosed a severe urinary infection so I ended up with very strong antibiotics which solved the problem. So as to eliminate chance of repeat I am no longer using the cage.
Sad but necessary

 

I spent 6 months in my CB-6000. i hadn't planned to stop even then, but i needed an xray and, well, i was sure even though they had seen everything, they hadn't seen my Everything. So i removed it.
Interestingly, i had expected before i locked down the When i removed it, i would have this HUGE Jack Off session, ending in an unprecedented cum fountain such as i had never known in life before.
But.
Then.
Six Months of orgasmic denial had passed.
The first 2 weeks had been a nightmare of sleeplessness, fighting nocturnal tumescence over and over until he Finally got the idea that, Hey, those days are Over, at least for a while.
Looking in the wall mirror at those 2 cocks, that i hadnt seen in half a year plus a bit, it was like they were not actually mine to touch any longer.
I did do an exam, looking for damage, very clinical, and i noted that i didnt even get an erection at that time.
i hadnt had anything except seminal flushing in all that time. Not one actual orgasm. And i thought back then, i would be wanking the skin off my dick at the first opportunity.
So, what was this all about then?
Considering it later that night i think it was that, first i wasnt ready to stop and call it quits. I wouldnt have if i hadnt Had too after all.
There was the matter of 195 days of lock down, and counting. A considerable record in my submissive mind.
It actually felt strange to handle my own genitals, as if someone else was touching them... it had been that long.

But i made a mistake that i regretted.
Coming home from the hospital i was to tired to lock my cock and balls back up, and eventually went to bed naked as my usual custom. That was probably the worse decision in the end.
i had a huge erotic dream of transformation, along the line of my favorite waking fantasies, and as you might guess i exploded at the end of it and so ended my 6 months of orgasm denial, at least in a memorable life like story of desires fulfilled.

Im afraid i was in a low mood for a few days after that, but slowly i realized that i was missing the comforting and familiar sensation of being locked up, and decided to go back into chastity again, but in a different device this time. A new resin clam shell design with a PA hook built in that has proven to be my favorite now over all others that i have experienced. You can find photos of them both on my profile.

i never feel quite right when i am unlocked and freeballing. i am sitting here at the keyboard in my Sheath tights in my resin device as we speak....
BTW, Sheath underwear have separate pouches for your balls, and for your penis, and they work just fine with my cages. In fact i think they improve wearability and reduce chafing on both clothing and skin.

 

I am in and out of chastity, with nothing enforced (or encouraged) by my wife in a few months. There are days where I miss the sensation of something surrounding my penis/balls so have taken to putting it on during the day and taking it off when I get home without consulting the wife. Did a brief denial stint in Feb but then we went on family holiday and the cage was impractical and haven't gone back to chaste relationship yet.

Yesterday was the first day where I put the cage on and then told her about it, her reaction was positive (as I had promised a massage that evening) and even after her massage and a few orgasms for her, she didn't want the cage off, so slept in it for the first time in 2 months.

Its back on again and feels familiar, will it last, not sure.

To the OP, I', so sorry for your loss. Coming up 25 years married and I couldn't comprehend not having my wife around. I hope you are doing okay and looking after your mental well-being.

 

I go through periods off wear up to 10 weeks as my longest. Usually when it comes off because my wife is ready for action I will sleep with it off. Then the next day the post orgasm blues hit like a ton of bricks and I can’t even bear the thought of anything sexual. Especially locking back up. I can usually push through that after a few days.

However, these days with a very observant nearly 4 year old and a 19 month old that spears me head first at full speed without warning , I find that they realize very quick that something is going on with the chunk of steel under my clothes and I start to feel like a weird deviant. I don’t particularly like answering the questions from the inquisitor “daddy, what is that?”, so I find it easier to just leave it off until I think she forgot about it and I try again.

Thats when self control or the lack thereof decides to rule my head and puts me back In a vicious cycle of masturbatory regret.