An year without any piv

My query was :
Is that true that unused pussies go on early menopause

 

My view of CM is that women decide what they do with their pussies, and whether they wish to use the cocks that they own.

I havent had piv since Christmas but there's nothing I can do about it except be as nice and loving to Madame Vanilla as possible so that she might decide she needs filling up by me.

I bought her a wand on Valentines but she hasnt yet used it. She may discover that she doesn’t NEED my cock anymore....then Ill have joined your club. But like Rectrix says, I think of her pussy almost full time so the occasional piv can only reinforce that fixation.

 

Cry me a river.... boo hoo hoo hoo. 7.5 yrs here n no end in sight. No PIV due to illness. Im her slave but I still go to sleep at night thinking of myself nestled into her warm wet .......

 

I going almost 3 years - the last she wanted me to but was not interested and told me stop - she gets herself off when ever she wants - stayed locked and that’s how it is -she told me to find someone to kh hold she not interested- so now a sexless but loving relationship

 

Well over a year without PIV... I need to use Trimix injection to stay hard for her which last time she allowed me inside gave her many orgasms. Since, she said there's no need for me to take anything to stay hard since it's useless. Since then She has had a couple of bulls (no longer) that satisfied her along with me only using my fingers, tongue and strapon...
At this point I can't even remember what the inside of a nice wet warm vagina feels like on my dick.

 

I now understand why guys like younger women. I had always preferred women older than me when I was single. Since my wife turned 50, my sex life has been in between my ears and my organ locked. I stopped keeping track but it's around 3 years since piv and nothing else for year and half.

 

Ya know right? I think in a lot of cases they bring on themselves. Im just as randy now as when 16 but completely useless with no where to point it!

 

This thread makes me feel like a newb.

We're at three years (we can't remember the exact date, so we consider April 1st our "Chastitversary"). However, we do this as a mutual kink, and not because she has some pain, or because it's punishment for me, or because our marriage is broken in some way. We both still have pretty healthy drives.

We all seem to have approached this differently.

 

Elasticity and natural lubrication are lost. Lubricants don't fix this and is painful per my Wife.

I am 4 years plus no PIV due to this. Never again.

 

about more than 20 years without PIV
She doesn't like it
and She has some problems with Her urethral lining.
and that doesn't matter for me

 

Indeed there are alternatives.

 

Not even in the slightest. Sex or lack thereof is not a cause for early menopause. The factors that determine when a women will enter menopause are mostly genetic but can be influenced due to exposure to certain chemicals and rarely, autoimmune diseases.

 

I was just wondering, all us guys that now no longer have PIV, are we all of a certain age? i include myself in this at 65, and is it that the woman finds it difficult/painful or is it that we have problems getting hard anymore.

 

FIXING to be 69. In my case both apply her age and nature. Mine nature and medication

 

I'm still in my 40s, albeit barely.

But I introduced her to dildos very early in our marriage, and she quickly found that, due to their size and stamina, they were far better at pleasing her. She still wanted me inside her sometimes -- briefly, and usually after she was already satisfied by the dildo -- because it feels different, made her feel closer, and so on. But, while she has continued to enjoy the dildo, PIV sex for me (or any kind of physical stimulation to my penis during 'sex') became increasingly rare to the point that even 5-6 years ago it was something that happened maybe once or twice a year, maybe on my birthday or our anniversary. Then almost three years ago on our anniversary she gave me the last fuck I will ever have. It lasted all of about 20 seconds, and after that she said she hoped I enjoyed it because she didn't and it would never happen again. She later added that I am, in her own words, to be "pussy free" for the rest of my life and not even allowed to look at female nudity except to serve and worship her.

To be clear, again, at least for now my wife still really enjoys PIV sex, but not with my penis.

 

I asked my madam this and we both don’t have a clue how long it’s been since I was permitted PIV, looking back on things, it’s around the 7 year mark for me. Ether just under, or just over.

 

in my case a little of both but mainly my wife is no longer interested

 

I am in early 50's and Wife is a few years older. It started a few years back with her lack of interest due to menopause.. Wince, SHes been on HRT, her drive is back, no pain and definitley no dryness After she started on hormone replacement my health issues, along with very low T, contributed to my inability to stay hard unless injecting with trimix. We began to transition to a non 24/7 FLR and she decided since it's useless (her words) no need for it. So she prefers her large dildo either with or without me wearing a strapon, my fingers and or tongue..
She also had a few bulls but we've since stopped with that and has me use the above on her.

 

That is exactly what my wife says as well but at least she still enjoys oral

 

This is a topic worthy of its own thread.

 

Well last time she bleed from it. That was the end of game.

 

just to add to this, my wife (63) suffers from dryness and finds PIV painful even though she uses prescribed creams, she likes my fingers just inside her when she uses her wand that gets her off.
In my case i have problems staying hard even though i take Cialis, So she hasnt used my cock for over 6 months now, my pleasure is she lets me tongue her pussy and ass whilst i masturbate, her watching me masturbate turns her on too.
She is quite good at keeping me in chastity and regularly makes me wear panties, basques, lingerie and nighties, which keeps my mind sexually active.

 

Nice place Shrewsbury, is she interested in keeping you in chastity or panties ?

 

shes not interested in ether unforchanatly i keep myself in chastity im hoping i can stay that way perminatly .and ive worn panties for years now not worn boxers for years

 

Did she lose interest due to your feminine side?