Hello all, So, I'm new do this, at least, one the practicing part of it. After a few months of light dom/sub, teasing and tying up, nothing too complex and some denial for at most a week, at some point my wife (we're together more than 10 years) jokingly said, 'well otherwise we may have to get you a chastity belt they used in the middle ages'. Little did she know these things still exist ;-). I replied I might as well do some research, just to gauge how serious she was and to see if she really didn't know anything at all about modern chastity stuff. She wasn't at all serious, and we laughed it off together ;-). I knew about chastity devices for a long time already but didn't want to force the subject. This time I saw it as a signal to go ahead and I ordered a CB6000. We're living a relaxed life now with our two kids (both under 10). Before, I was in business, having run several startups in the past. So I'm used to being 'on top' during the day, or at least I was. I've always had the feeling I could do better as a husband, brought this up several times and the fact that her taking the lead between the sheets might help me get there, but I guess she never really understood fully. Until last week. I put the CB6000 by the side of the bed, tied myself up and waited for her to come to bed. The next few days were a true rollercoaster. We're in slightly over a week now and I couldn't have been more surprised by my wife. Starting with a few hours at first and telling me to put it on during the day after, yesterday evening after I treated her to a nice orgasm, but wasn't entirely happy with my own performance she simply stated: 'well, then you can lock yourself up again before you go to sleep and by the way don't expect a release for the next 2 days'. We talked about it a lot over the past few days and I told her how much my focus has changed already (not just over the past week but more so after getting the device). She noticed too, and she liked it a lot, both my behavior during the day as well and teasing and chastity aspect of it. Thanks for this site and to everybody that's participating and sharing! best. Alex p.s. looking at a more comfy and hygienic metal device right now. Posted about that here: https://www.chastitymansion.com/for...enic-and-more-comfortable-metal-device.41145/
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