First time in a cage

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    Hi!

    I signed up to this site years ago and never ended up posting or pursuing chastity. Well lockdown has left me deeply frustrated and unsatisfied. Masturbation without satisfaction is just blegh. So I said screw it and bought a cage. I've had it on since last night and adjusted it here and there.

    I'm not used to the sensations yet so couple of things - my balls feel quite squeezed but this is the vice plus so it's one of the bigger cages out there and I'm using the biggest rings and spacers so I'm inclined to think that it's just me being unused to the sensation?

    I've put some photos in so people can see what they think - or just generally enjoy if you like :)

    I tried smaller spacers and then went back up to the big ones

    I woke up quite a few times in the night and needed to piss but didn't actually produce much, is that a newbie thing or a normal thing?

    Thoughts anyone?

    Cheers!

    my caged dick 2.jpg
    my caged dick 1.jpg
     
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    Looks like a good fit to me.
     
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    Thanks! That's good to hear. Maybe I should have posted a poll to get a lot of opinions...

    I'm tempted to take it off to see how things feel once it's off but... also that's kind of not the point. Even if it were too tight I don't think I'd realistically do any harm in the space of a day or two.

    Also the second I posted that up I thought' damn I wish I'd shaved properly' hahah

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    I thought I should provide a little update!

    everyone here was super helpful and suggested lots of things to check and warning signs to keep an eye out. Since it seemed that everything was fine I had no reason to be unlocked. So I put it back on like a good boy

    I’ve just spent my second night locked in the vice- I’ve had the anti-pullout insert in which you can really feel if you get even slightly hard. I kind of like it. Kind of hate it. I guess that’s chastity for a lot of people.

    I took it off this morning to check I was ok - everything fine- resisted the temptation and put it back on. I’m not quite comfortable wearing it out yet- I have but only when going nearby.

    I think I’m going to stay locked at home for now- no idea for how long!

    Answers on a postcard

    Thanks again to everyone who I was so helpful!
     
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    Hi and in time you will not want to take it off. It will get very comfortable in time.
     
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    Is that a prediction? Perhaps I should starts a poll? I’ve seen the journeys that people on this site have gone through over years. I can’t imagine wanting to stay locked but who knows? Maybe I’ll end up a happy sissy slave Chuck?
     
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    *blush*

    I don’t always fill the cage but right now I can’t imagine fitting in a smaller one.

    I went for a long walk and - because I’m not used to it yet- I took it off. I think I’d better put it back on don’t you?
     
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    Well it's a week tonight. Not a single orgasm... Horniness comes and goes but tbh before I put it on it wasn't high. Single in lockdoown hasn't been pleasant. I've taken the cage on and off for fitting and getting used to it, cleaning etc but basically been on for a week. Feels ok. Might get a smaller vice at some point. Although I can get this one on pretty reliably and a smaller one would be more difficult I'd be interested to see what it was like if there was even less space. Speak up if you have any wisdom to share.

    Been doing some online play which has been fun... I like edging

    We'll see how much longer I'm in here. I'll update if anyone's interested :p
     
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    Beautiful cage, nice fit. ;-)
     
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    oh you!

    Getting hornier... :D

    I can see why people start thinking about hookups... :p
     
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    Get on tinder or grindr to see if anyone is interested in a chastised man. You never know... :cool:
     
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    Hi Loukie - Just to say that this looks like a perfect fit for you. In fact you fill it beautifully lol. A little initial discomfort is to be expected but things should settle down and you'll begin to feel "deliciously inconvenienced". Depends what your goals are really. If I can just suggest ... er grooming? Clean shaven and moisturised always looks best - and prevents nasty unwanted hair pulls too (always happens when you least expect it). I thought the Vice came only in pink ( I have one and it was a big selling point for me). Transparent allows us to see more of you - which is just great! lol Enjoy
     
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    It will get very comfortable, in time.
    Then it'll get too loose, and you'll want a smaller cage!
     
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    At the beginning of my caging, I found the cage to be uncomfortable and irritating. I did the same things that you have done ( taking it off and putting it back on). I had noticed that this made it worse. As time goes on and a few adjustments it became comfortable to wear that I would forget until the cage reminded me I'm still here. For going out that also took me time figuring out what to wear in comfort. Time is the best way for doing this,,,,,,,but challenge yourself to see what you are comfortable with.
     
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    Why thank you :)

    If there's another place I can get appreciative comments on pictures of my cock and balls I don't wnat to know about it! It's definitely become more comfortable and actually I don't always fill it like I did in this picture. I can get more flacid and I looked in to it and it looks like all the variants of the vice are compatible with eachother so I might pick up a standard at some point and move down a size when I'm small enouogh to make it work.

    As for grooming - I did it quite quickly, you should see what I had before! The second I posted those photos I found myself wishing I'd shaved more thoroughly!
     
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    Yeah definitely might get the vice 'standard' but the XL rings seem to work better for my balls. I shrank down and then woke up with really constricted balls and I don't want to go there yet. Removing the anti-pullout device also seems to make it more comfortable - not surprising as that's the vice part and it vices around your cock. It's not designed to be comfortable from that perspective.

    Does kind of feel like a punishment when you get harder in it though which... doesn't make the problem go away :p
     
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    Yeah I've had it off all weekend but it's gonna go back on maybe tonight, maybe tomorrow morning. I still haven't cum but I did a little edging and had some leakage which I guess means its doing it's work lol

    Definitely getting more interested in my butt as well. Other people have that experience?

    Thanks all for your replies, it's good to have some support from people who know what they're talking about!
     
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    Looks like a proper fit for you. Far to much cage length for me. Can't fill a Nub these days.

    Good luck
     
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    Uhhhhhhhh No!!
    Being caged just makes me horny. Leave my butt out of it!
     
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    looks like it’s fits well, and having no discomfort is a good sign!
     
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    It will certainly get more comfortable when you no longer have the option of just 'taking it off". When taking it off becomes dependent on your keeping a KH happy, you won't be quite so focused on the comfort of your cage. Just sayin!
     
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    Well it's been a while! I thought I'd drop an update as everyone here was kind enough to help me and support me when I first got my cage

    I haven't worn it much recently - I did some play with a few people and I've been teased but I think there's a reason a lot of the people who seem to have the best experiences with chastity seem to be in well established relationships. Sadly I'm not.

    Also work sucked a LOT but I have a new job at the same organisation now and I'm much happier in that part of my life

    So... back in the cage?

    I'm thinking about locktober too... :)

    I'd like to get a smaller cock part for my vice cage - when i put it on and I'm pretty big I fill it up but when I shrink down it's bigger than I need and it seems like chastity has the most effect when you can't get hard at all. Does that match with anyone's experience?

    Hello all :)
     
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    Well said.
     
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    It seems that the smaller the cage, the fewer erections you will get.
     
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