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    At least you acknowledge that what you did was despicable and that she was absolutely right to punish you harshly for it. No matter how mad you are at her or how sexually frustrated you may be with enforced chastity, you will respect and obey her at all times or suffer the severe consequences.
     
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    Please allow me to respectfully submit that punishments need to suit the keyholder not her sub. I'm available to help coach if he needs this but I hope he will read this and come to you for forgiveness and his caning if this is your choice.
     
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    What about electrics. e.g. flyswatter?
     
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    I am in a similar situation; my mistress knows that I like various kinds of punishment. So, her latest tactic: exercise 5 of 7 days in the week or no shaving! I failed the first week but I was sure not to fail the second week. I am now 12 days in and getting very little sleep as my new "Chastity Tube" device (not pictured) yanks on my short ones several times between 3 a.m. and 7 a.m. each morning! simple but brilliant of my mistress!
     
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    @StableBoy I love that idea of the chastity tube! Where do i find one!?!
     
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    Haha, we had that problem, too :) If you never give release, then there is just no point in lengthening his time. My girlfriend never let me release, too. But there is usually no reason to punish me. But when ever she wants to punish me, she jus squeeze my balls or nipples. I'm no masochist, so I get no joy frm that
     
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    Actually, Chastity Tube is the website of Lori Lancer. Her devices are 3x more expensive than the one pictured in my profile. I have to figure out to upload the new one. It also takes a long time to have them custom made. But I will say that the design is cruel and medieval. There are permanent spikes at 10 and 2 pm on the ring. they dig in for evening / am. erections but also keep the ring locked around the base of the shaft. There are two more permanent punishment pins at the lower base of the shaft. They accept the pain of evening/am erection as I expand fruitlessly into the cage shaft. They also inflict pain once the cage is full. Her products are the real deal for serious discipline.
     
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    Make him take an ice bath . not a cold shower . Tie him in the bath tub so he can not get out , fill the tub with cold water then add bags of crushed ice . Make him stay in for 6-10 min . He may enjoy other punishments but he will beg to get out . Make him stay in as long as you wish
    This will not damage him at all . This is not sexual in any
    way but is very painful . take it from me IT WORKS.
     
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    And it's actually supposed to be quite good for the health so they say! Not sure if I believe that though! :)
     
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    Hi Dee. I've found that mouth soaping works wonders! I wet a bar of soap until its soft and have her hold it inside her lips, with her teeth. There should be no sexual excitement from this!
     
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    I was also punished with stress positions . You can find out all about them on line. Some can be very painful
    in a short time . She would make me rub my body with glycerin to make me sweat then tie me nude in a very hot room always in a different position each time. I also had a real problem being shirtless in public . She would take me to yard sales or goodwill and make me strip off my shirt
    and make me try on shirts out in the store or yard for all to see. But the worst were the ice baths . They were only used on me 4 times but always in the morning .
    Out of bed into the tub tied hand and foot then filled
    with cold water . Then bags of crushed ice . Depending
    on the crime i would have to stay in for 10 minuets or more. For me none of these punishments were sexual
    in any way . Not like ass whippings or nipple clamps
    Not funishments at all . I should also say from the age of 13 i had a fantasy of being able to take cold morning showers. It was said cold showers would turn a guy off
    but i found i could in fact masturbate in total cold water.
    When i was about 35 i started to train my body to take
    cold morning showers. I would get up at 5 am do as many pushups as i could and get into a body temp shower. Then slowly turn the water colder and colder to full cold then try to stay in longer and longer . Till i could stay in the coldest water for 6 minuets . I in fact started to wake
    up without a clock and look forward to my cold shower.
    I would come back to bed to warm up and my wife would
    often reward me with sex or a hand job. I did this for a very long time until i got back from a ceribbean cruse where their was no cold water and found i could no longer take cold showers.
     
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    Forbid him using sofas, beds and chairs for a week.
     
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    Post is from 2016.
     
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    Yes original post is about 5 years old and OP was last here in 2017. So suggestions for her, probably aren't needed. But sharing punishments that Domme uses on you could help others. For subs who are in chastity and being denied, extending time without orgasm may not be effective. What a Domme might do, is bring them to orgasm and then continue to stimulate their penis. Men can get very sensitive after an orgasm, so playing with him, especially the glans could be more effective. I have a Dom friend who feels that every sub's orgasm should be painful in some way. That might work for subs that are in chastity full time.
     
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    this is just how my madam works, any failure on my part and the punishment is I am ignored and denied any type of flr/bdsm interaction.
     
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