Normalising Chastity Usage

You could add as a requirement during house arrest. And it could be used by doctors and therapists as a tool to achieve a desired behavior change. Primarily though I think it needs to be normalized by women that is just common and expected to lock up their boyfriend or husband

 

Think you're dreaming mate. Most chastity devices are easily removed by anyone who doesn't want to be wearing one.

 

Isn't part of the attraction the fact it isn't normal?

 

There are many fiction/fantasy ideas already.

Like Female lead country's, All men are under control by womans.
Or like kinda replacement for traffic tickets/fines.
Forced to wear when watching Girls sports (like hockey)
Likely to wear when your wife/gf is on het period.


Your mind is the only limit

 

I mean, why slice and dice this? How about all men, all the time?

Once you reach the age of 17 you get fitted by a female physician and have regular checkups to make sure the device is sized right. That way every woman knows every man is caged and can verify it at will. Being caught without you cage is a felony.

Maybe someday cell phones will have bluetooth access to nearby devices such that women can give men close by a gentle shock/buzz to see if they are wearing...how fun would that be?

 

I agree!

 

I like you're thinking, might be a safer place for our ladies in this world

 

if we're going to fantasise about it why not go the whole hog. Any time a male is out of his own house.

 

Normalization is the key and not necessarily fantasy. I think it will happen as more exposure in general media. I think many more women would initiate chastity if it was a well known tool women already heard about.

 

I wear several chastity t-shirts out n about n dont pickup on anything from anybody.

 

I find wearing my cage to be particularly comfortable, especially the way it forces my balls forward into a sort of package that moves together as a unit. I was thinking about codpieces from old English times and tribes I have seen in documentaries who traditionally wear penis adornments. There have been many styles of cock and ball type clothing or devices used commonly over the time of history for different reasons. I wonder if there could be a market for just a ball pouch or chastity like device that people wear for the comfort as a sort of substitute or addition to underwear?

 

When not wearing my cage I will generally wear a SS cock ring. Gives that same feeling of your scrotum bring squeezed minus the cage.

 

chastity is taught in sexuality education classes since elementary school.

Young girls have been taught that boys should be in chastity from the onset of adolescence.

Boys, by the culture of acceptance, do not consider it normal not to wear this behavior aid.

during flirtations at a young age, it is normal for the girl to ask the boy's mother for the keys.

the women feel safe, of course the boys can force the cage open. but this is no longer socially acceptable neither by parents nor by society.

it is considered deviance and the young man is ostracized in the event of a rebellion.

for males less able to control their impulses, alternative therapies are available.

they have the possibility of masturbating in front of a nurse who accesses the opening of the cage while the parents wait in the waiting room.

at marriage, it is customary to have a key handover ceremony as a symbol of authority exchange.

All friends and family attend the occasion and the boy turned man is invited to give a thank you speech to his mom and promises to make his wife happy.

throughout his life, the man submits to the sexual will of his wife.

 

@cagedfellow very interesting ideas!

How is it possible that point 4. (Dating site with Chastity) isnt already online or accessable. This is a point that doesnt need to be fiction. ??

 

Men that are alone probably won't wear their cage sometimes because they have the key. One part of getting ready for a date would be to get back in the cage, put some perfume and put the key around your own neck.

It's like a ritual and we do not question this fact since it is integrated into social norms.

Things would be clear when She ask to wear your key will be significant that both of you are now together....

 

hmm therefore men should wear chastity more. Then weaing it on a date wouldnt be a ritual but a very normal thing.

If you use the whole cage to protect women you could also say it has to be worn around women. So literally everywhere in public.

 

If enough people started putting chastity status or desired chastity status in their dating site profiles, it would only be a matter of time before the sites started including it as a parameter.

Unfortunately, single people on vanilla dating sites are, by definition, probably the last demographic that would drive that kind of change.

 

I would tend to think that some lonely man would be reluctant to wear it in private. But since they have been raised throughout male chastity, i indeed believe that the one who's reluctant privately would be wearing it when they are outside. They would not take the risk of being marginalized.

It would be like a social status.

 

I think it could happen with the new generation that's growing up. They don't seem to drink, don't seem to have sex (obviously I'm generalising), seem to treat the opposite sex more as mates than potential sexual partners. I could see chastity becoming mainstream for them. Once it starts it will fully take off.

 

Chastity and the right technologies would allow master complete control of sissy. The system would continually report data back to KH who could administer the appropriate response; pain or pleasure.
Be very, very careful ; the KH will have complete control and there is no escape.

 

I didn't even need tech to get to that point

 

To remove it from Kink and shift it to the normal world, it would have to be used in daily life and have no stigma attached.

Men would have to want to wear them and see not wearing one as unusual. Think about the existing status of anal play. Whilst more men are exploring and discovering the joys of anal play, it still carries with it a stigma that "anal = gay" which for some is a psychological / societal block they can't / won't get past. Locking up in a device would require men to give up the notion that their sexual pleasure centred on their penis and learn that giving without getting is just as fulfilling but in a completely different way, again a psychological / societal block that many wouldn't / couldn't get past.

How could it be normalised?

Celebrating a boys chastity day (e.g. on his 18th birthday) and make it a thing to be celebrated and proud of.
I like the idea of the ritual of a bride being given the key by her new mother in law (the reverse if you will of the father giving away the bride), this would also reinforce the brides position in the relationship.