Does make chastity make you feel more homosexual thoughts?

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    Just asking....
     
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    Does MALE chastity......stupid auto-correct
     
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    I am no more attracted to masculine people now than before I started chastity.
     
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    For me being in chastity, just increases my desire to submit. I've always pictured being a sub to a strong woman. Luckily i've met such a woman online here at CM. But i do have to admit that being caged and facing my sissy status has reduced my resistance to potentially submitting to a man as well. Something about not having control over your own cock releases my submissive desires far more than i ever expected.
     
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    For me it definitely does. The longer I go, the more I seem to want semen.....and not my own.

    I am going to posit a reason why: The longer I go without cumming, the more my body tries to replace something that is missing. In this case, whatever nutrients/hormones/etc. that are produced by the sex glands. That may be silly nonsense, but there has to be a reason. Because after cumming, I am still desirous of vaginas.....but not cocks. But when I am full, I want them both.

    To be VERY specific, the more full I am, the more I want a creampie. And not with my own filling.
     
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    #6 Kiye, Aug 25, 2020
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    I'm bi, but I notice I'm not attracted to men and women equally- it's more certain times. I do find in general a higher percentage of women sexually appealing than I do men.

    There are specific times when I'm really horny and think about cock a lot more during those times.

    But admittedly for me with men a big part of the appeal is from my own kinks. I find the idea that if someone has enough control over me to make me perform sexual acts that are different from how I present and show myself to the world, that's very hot. The same is true for bondage, chastity etc. they're hot because of the control and I think feeling controlled gets me over my own confidence and insecurity issues around sex in general. Too much info, I know, but I suppose if you really psychoanalyse these things it gets confusing.

    I think if society didn't sexualise women as much, my levels of attraction might have been more equally split.

    But yeah, attraction (and the human mind) is confusing enough even before you add chastity on top of it.
     
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    I can see now that I should clarify my response. I took "Homosexual Thoughts" to mean who you are attracted to rather than what pleasurable acts you may be willing to engage in.

    Since I have started chastity (back in 2015) I can definitely say that I am more open to anal and nipple play. In fact I now absolutely love anal play. It has not however changed who I am attracted too at all. I find it a cruel irony that I can enjoy anal play as much as I do and still be turned off by masculinity.
     
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    I definitely think about cocks more when I’m locked and denied for extended periods. Having dabbled a bit as a young man I’ve always wanted to explore more but never had the right situation present itself. Chastity has certainly had an impact on that desire.
     
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    I would love to be allowed to suck a cock off in front of my lady. Definitely think about cock more when locked
     
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    Perhaps male sexuality and interactions with other men is simply so ridden with fears of being viewed as teh ghey which not only means we have less close physical contact with other men (compared to women) but also that we have some really neurotic and weird ideas about our bodies. In general terms of course. In many cases you hear things like "Only the person sucking my dick is gay" or getting fucked. It's obvious that something is quite broken there. Will a piece of insert-material-here make you feel more homosexual? No. But you letting go of a lot of weird notions about what being a man means and perhaps becoming more of a person might open you up to the idea that a cock is not scarier than a pussy.
     
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    I definitely have more homosexual thoughts when locked up. My mind races at the thought of sucking one while in chastity. Pleasuring a cock while mine is locked up and ignored makes me drip.
     
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    I don't find a penis "scarier" than a vagina
    It's the Masculinity that usually comes attached to a live Penis that bothers me.
     
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    That's a yes for me . The longer I'm locked , the greater the homosexual desires. I have not had anal sex , but I keep thinking about having it !
     
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    I don't think it "makes" you more of anything, and not to be too PC here, it would be more bisexual unless you were homosexual going in.

    I am a trans-lesbian by definition, because my attraction is to females. But I am a former escort and sex worker, and the truth is that women dont use these services, men do. In my case, I most often worked chastized, but due to my preference to not want to be touched by a client that way.

    I think what you are asking is more like: "Does being chastized make you desire sexual things that challenge your limits?" (Including bisexuality) and the answer for me is that it super charges an already very active imagination, yes.
     
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    For me chastity and feminization and sissification go "hand in hand".... for me I feel more feminine when in chastity.
     
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    Yes
     
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    After a considerable time in chastity I start liking the f2f type of un than being homosexual
     
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    I when to an all boys boarding school, so there was lots of opportunity for sex with other boys which, I eagerly participated.

    My first job in the 70’s was working with a few gay people. I did accompany them out to clubs and bars and did go out with a couple of the guys. I also when out with three girls during the same period.

    The person I fell in love with, my now Wife and we have been married for nearly 50 years.

    I love the pix posted on CM and love looking at all gorgeous body and lovely cocks. Should the opportunity arise to have a ‘homosexual’ encounter I would be willing.

    This is because I see sex as sex not hetro, bi, les or homo (or any other sexual orientation)
     
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    Maybe it's the chastity, maybe it's just accepting my naturally beta nature... either way, I've definitely experienced more homosexual thoughts in the last few years than ever before. However, it's really just a horny lust for cock & cum for the sake of submission, and I don't think I'll ever have any desire for intimacy/sensuality with another man.
     
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    No. Definitely not. I think if I had those tendencies, I would have explored it by now. Chastity isn't going to change that, and I have no preconceived prejudices that would make me repress something that may be hidden due to societal pressures.
     
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    I feel exactly the same, i crave cock after a long time without release, it tends to go away after release
     
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    Nope.

    (Almost) Naked males are what I used to hit with my boxing gloves when I was a kid.

    And I find penises quite ugly.

    Being locked DOES make me fixate on my wifes body, and reduces my interest in other women.
     
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    Lately I've been finding that, in additional to chastity, viewing only censored porn has increased homosexual thoughts. I'm not talking about the sissy-hypno stuff that overtly tells you to chase bbc or whatever, but rather "beta safe" type images. For example, this would include pictures of solo women with their private areas blocked out or vanilla porn that blurs the girl's body while keeping the guy(s) exposed. Now when I accidentally come across uncensored porn, I'm able to avoid fixating on the parts I'm not allowed to see and instead focus on what I can.

    This has done two things for my wife and me... 1. She loves when I dirty talk about other guys having their way with her, and now she really enjoys teasing me with the same story. Turns out she fantasizes about me with other guys as much as I fantasize about her with them. 2. I've gained a new appreciation for my wife's naked body. When I catch a peek of her in the shower or changing, it now feels like something I'm not supposed to be seeing even though we don't have that explicit rule. This in turn makes touching her way more exciting than ever. It's kinda like being a teenage boy again.
     
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    I think yes for some and no for others.

    Personally I had no interest in guys until I had been locked for ages.
    That combined with a year being cross dressed most of the time.
    I found myself looking at and appreciating pictures of locked cocks.
    When I never had before.
    On top of that my KH gave me oral and deepthroat training. With various inanimate dildo things.
    So now I find myself daydreaming about what the real thing would be like.
     
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    It really is an interesting phenomenon.

    From my point of view, after a substantial period of abstenance, i have a deep burning inside at the thought of cock, i literally crave it,

    I naturally feel more slutty and i want to be used,

    And yet as soon as i am allowed to release, these thoughts more or less go away,

    I find when i havent been released for a while, i actually find feminised men more sexually appealing than women!

    But as mentioned previously, i think sexuality is definitely a spectrum and not justblack and white
     
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