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    Anything can be labeled as a kink depending on the spirit that you use it. Kink and lifestyle work best together. What if you are with someone who enjoys wearing a clothing item or hair style that is your fetish? Is it kink, fetish, lifestyle, or both? Maybe the kind of stuff that mainstream culture wants to tuck away and hide is considered kink as a way of shaming people who engage in it
     
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    We may be just engaging in classic CM overthinking. We are dreaming about her meeting sailors at port on shore leave while her husband is at home cleaning the kitchen locked but the answer may very well be her saying,” I just like to shop at thrift stores and I got this one for $0.50 last week.”
     
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    We could open up the discussion to women in fantasy or porn but are there any who truly enjoy the lifestyle or do they just make quick video scenes where the man puts on the device to shoot and then takes it off. The domme Ezada Sinn has a YouTube channel where she discusses chastity and FLR. She seems practice what she preaches as the saying goes
     
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    Fortunately, this would never happen here. ️:+1:
     
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    I think that real conversations should be had about the real lives of couples and singles who live this lifestyle. For some of us, it's not porn or scene play, but a way of our day-to-day life. And I just like to talk about it. And I would love to bring people on the show how live similar lives. I feel like there are 1000s of us out here, who fell alone. The more this gets talked about, the more it becomes comfortable to talk about, and accepted as more than a kink or fetish.

    Oh. and I have video versions making their way onto my YouTube channel as well. It makes for good viewing with your loved one and a bag of popcorn ;-)
     
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    My podcast is a real reflection of the real-life that my subby and I live. I mix bits and pieces of my life week to week, along with sharing my thoughts and learning right along with my listeners on various topics.
     
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    I completely agree with the statement about the negative. And I hear what you are saying about wives/GFs. I knew nothing about any of this until my (now) subby brought it up. The key is in how to bring it up. You don't want to "top from the bottom", but you don't want to bite your tongue either. Every couple is different. So men, it's important and beneficial to "learn" your wife/GF, and learn the best way to introduce things to them.

    As an aside, I know that I have female listeners to my podcast. I receive emails and DMs from them all of the time. And, I'm currently "coaching" a couple the the wife was the one who contacted me first. So that's a positive step, right?
     
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    Thank you for the work you do. Women discussing this topic with each other is worth 10x us talking about it.
     
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    I'm just honored to be here. So if I bring any value to the mansion, that's just amazing to me!
     
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    Oh my god that would be a dream come true. Everyone at work knowing I'm caged without it being weird... Colleges could require students to be caged while in lecture halls and at extra curricular events. Maybe establishments could use smart cages that wouldn't control the lock, rather alert administration when the cage is unlocked. College students could still participate in consensual sex, but sexual harassment claims could be backed by knowledge of whether the accused was caged or not.
     
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    Hi all - Long time lurker here. This is my first post but I do think this topic is important. The most "real" chastity site I am aware of for promoting chastity as a relationship benefit while downplaying most of the kink/BDSM aspects is https://evolvingyourman.com

    Great articles and (to my thinking anyway) a female perspective that would be appropriate for introducing the concepts to a fairly vanilla wife/GF/KH.
     
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    That is definitely a great blog to read. It encompasses everything from Emily’s point of view. All of the various topics on this forum
     
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    interesting reading, thanks for posting.
     
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    I would be in heaven if the chastity at work rule was put into place and enforced.
    I am sure every office has at least one person (M or F) that would like to be an inspector.
    that way the male employee would have to be inspected prior to starting work, surprise inspections during the day, then at night a numbered tag on the lock would ensure he didn't remove it at night.
    Bonuses for longer term chastity could be offered and wives could be rewarded with bonuses also.
    Even take it a step further and have the male chastity wearer work in the nude, thus removing any chance of hiding and should he start to become aroused , any female employee could report him or punish him.
    Damn I am getting so hard and my cage is hurting.
    Thanks guys for this idea.
     
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    Caliente is in my backyard <3 Love seeing caged toys there!
     
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    Yeah it was not like cypress. a cage is accepted at caliente
     
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    Love your podcast. Your focus is on the relationship.
     
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    I think a big difference-maker within the last couple of years is the popularity of Reddit's /r/ChastityCouples (nsfw). It's very active and gets new posts from new couples every day. The subscriber count has been climbing like crazy as well.
     
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    I wonder if this really is a chastity lock key. It doesnt look familiar. Does anyone have any idea as to the type of device. The shirt that says "my boyfriend is a..." is pretty much a statement.
     
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    Check out Marissa Rudder, she’s the real deal when it comes to FLR and male chastity.
     
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    It’s already difficult enough being horny and locked in chastity at the office while surrounded by so many cute ladies wearing their sexy dresses and shoes.
     
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    OK chastity hubby, where do you work. You need to be outed on here and that way we can all tell your coworkers to bump into your cage and make you even more uncomfortable.
     
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