Reducing post orgasm sub-drop

I think most of us are the same way. My sub drop was a week sometimes.
I read on it somewhere and we now now use something that works like dream (so says my wife) Once I'm allowed to have a full release, I'm required to consume all of it right away. No matter where it's deposited.
For me, doing that act is the last thing I want to do. Before I came it sounded like a fun thing to try. After I came, no way did I want to eat it! I just wanted to enjoy my floating time and feel like a real male not in a cage.
Not going to happen. Consuming your own junk will snap you back to your submissive self very quickly. As an added bonus ( training as my wife puts it) she wants me back into my cage right away most of the time. That reinforces my submissive status. Going right back into our cage is something most of us can do without for a few days until the sub drop is gone.

That's my story, eat your load right away and I mean right away* and put your cage back on. Watch how fast your sub drop goes away.

* The first time my wife told me to consume all of it while she watched I just stood there and starred at it. Not sure how long I stood looking at it trying to get myself to lick it up. My wife finally said to not let it get cold as it tastes worse. The first time is always the hardest. She was correct, warm is much better.
Good luck!

 

Orgasm is like a kill switch, yes. Like most, after my orgasm, I just prefer to lie back and be left alone. Then after days everything starts to come back.
That is if I'm left alone. But as said above if control doesn't stop all the submissiveness remains. Forced cum consumption is the easiest way to achieve this.
The other option that remains and is preferred by my Miss is to remove orgasm. It can be no orgasm at all or a ruined one. Either way, there is no change in my state of mind.

 

I’ll second what Jail Bird said. Consuming and getting locked back up immediately afterwards greatly reduces, if not eliminates the sub drop for me.

 

A week is roughly the length of time @Redbear KH saw/timed before I was back to normal after my last o.

I'm always up for cleaning until I've cum! We too are trying to think of ways to reduce the time until I'm back to my caged, sub state post orgasm.

 

What about more stimulation post-orgasm? When the last thing you want is your penis to be touched, she keeps on pumping it to almost torturous levels. That’d be a firm reminder of who’s in charge and make me want the cage back on immediately!

 

There is a drug called cabergoline that prevents the release of prolactin at orgasm which instantly kills libido. May want to research it. You can buy from India from this pharmacy that I’ve used before for hormones. https://www.alldaychemist.com/catalogsearch/result/?q=Cabergoline

 

Since i was allowed to have orgasms just caged, nothing changed in my state of mind post-orgasm. First i was allowed monthly. Now at 3 months.

 

Have you (or anyone here) tried this, and if so with what success? My GF says it takes 6 weeks for me to be 100% "back" to where she wants me and that is too long for her (can't even blame her) therefore I must plan on virtually no full O's. Something like this might save me!

 

https://agingwellsystem.com/article-library/cabergoline-the-latest-in-libido-enhancement/

https://www.google.com/search?q=how...j0j7&hl=en-US&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

 

My sub-hubby often experienced the same thing in the past. Whenever I chose to grant a release, it was almost like starting all over again with his submissive training.

But the solution to this is simple for those in a true FLR. No releases at all should be allowed. For my sub-hubby it is now almost a year since I last allowed him a release and orgasm, you would hardly believe how much his behavior has improved and how submissive he has become!

 

It must have been hard work for you to train and dominate him on the basis of permanent chastity.
Is he already broke and takes his place before you, or does he still have macho attitudes?

 

Like Jailbird said, i'm required to consume my release immediately after cumming. It is hard to do, but does set the stage for re-committing to a submissive role. Locking back up helps too, but even with these, there is some drop in the submissive feeling. It does help to move on to chores or other physical actions that occupy your mind.

 

I would like to see the discussion develop into how best to stop sub drop without come eating, or near permanent lock up.

 

Is it perhaps about mental conditions? I speak with relative inexperience compared to some folk on here. I don’t live with my Miss (she’s my best friend)

yesterday morning I had a completely random message from her. She wanted me to cum. She told me exactly how and when. I couldn’t make myself do it as there have been lengthy discussions about me not cumming for an unspecified period of time at the start of lock up.

I was surprised that she instructed me to do so but shocked that I couldn’t. I completely disobeyed her order.

I was congratulated latter in the day

 

It takes me usually less than one day to feel deeply my submissiveness again. But I achieve the maximum level after 7 to 10 days. I also hate this state of lazyness during first hours after orgasm.
Hopefully, there is one very efficient method how to avoid it. No orgasms at all.

 

i totaly agree as long as he get to pleshure his wif / mistress then a good sub should learn to get his releas from her orgasms perminat should mean perminant

 

Not really such hard work, just a matter of long-term consistent training and discipline.

To answer your questions: Yes, I suppose he could be considred well broken-in and takes his place before me when required to do so. His former macho attitudes have now completely vanished, he now realizes his position as submissive in our relationship.

 

Ruined orgasms.

 

Look at this post from another thread. That does it for me.

 

Here is a rather interesting write up about the science of it.

https://evolvingyourman.com/2019/04/25/male-sex-hormones/

I use the supplement that is linked in this article. They worked for me.

Iso.

 

Watch some porn.. Get a good spanking and clean up your mess. All three help me. I was lucky enough to get two releases yesterday. A little porn has me back in sub mode. Ready to cook and clean the house tonight.

 

At first my Wife(KH) would allow me to stay unlocked for a day or so after a orgasm. But after two years of MC, when I do get to have a orgasm, it's right back into the cage. It still takes 24-36 hours to get back into the "mood", but it better for me that way. My Wife(KH) has me wanting to be caged back up and I really miss not wearing some type of cage now.

 

@Jah Rubbings, are these what you’re looking for?

 

I always wondered whether going into a Humbler right after orgasm, followed by a good spanking before being caged again, would shorten the time for the sub drop. A sort of immediate reminder why you need to realize your a sub and in the proper place.