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    Hi All,

    I've lurked and read alot on this forum for a while now and finally made an account to make this post and ask for some advice.

    I introduced my girlfriend to the world of chastity just over a month ago and since then it has turned into a wild ride, as she is probably more interested in it than I am now.

    I am now 24/7 locked with only being released with by her, luckily the cage i have is a steel cage with quite a bit of access for cleaning. It has been just over a month now and of course im enjoying it but I had only experimented before and now it seems I am permanently locked.

    She has taken to wearing the key around her neck on a new silver chain, and has even told one of her curious friends what the key is for.

    For those who have been or are locked on a semi permanent basis, what should I be expecting? And is there anything I need to worry about or be concerned of? So far I've been keeping good care of myself hygienically and haven't had many instances of the cage being uncomfortable especially considering I don't have much if any problems sleeping in it.

    Any advice would he helpful and I am willing to answer questions if asked.

    Thanks.
     
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    Hello and welcome. You've pointed out the main things already. Keep things clean and look out for any discolouration. Good luck.
     
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    Just relax and enjoy the ride.

    Iso.
     
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    Communicate. Start by asking what she does and does not want to hear about, of course. My GF likes it when I tell her what is working (to drive me nuts). It is like a truth syrum and she learns from every comment. Others dont want to hear about "it" but they sure want to hear about your new feelings for her.

    Interesting side note on this: my GF locks me for wayyy longer than I ever imagined. She welcomes me to share my genuine fears and concerns, too. She says it will never, ever result in release, but I need to learn how to be vulnerable and she needs to be supportive in very real ways because this is now our lifestyle.
     
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    If you want to know what to expect, ask HER! She is the only one who really knows.....maybe you will be lucky enough that she has thought it through and has a general idea of what she wants.
    My wife/KH just says "I guess we'll both find out together"!
     
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    Welcome and enjoy the ride if she is like my WIFE don’t bring up the cage but communicate about ever thing else. There is nothin better than being locked 24/7
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and enjoyable. Good luck as it seems you have a wonderful start.
     
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