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    I think we should try to tell a woman a day about male chastity. Also about FLR. Just try to tell one a day.
     
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    That could increase awareness and participation!
     
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    In matters like this,

    Discretion is the better part of Valor.

    Iso.
     
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    And in the real world...
     
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    Not really going to happen. After a week you'd have a reputation all round town of being a weirdo.
     
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    I think if you even expanded the knowledge of male chastity and FLR beyond your own intimate relationship, just once or twice, it would be a major undertaking. More likely to have an impact if you got the ideas onto a more public forum, where the information wouldn't have such a personal connection. Still unlikely, but admirable.
     
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    Yes probably even with all the changes in gay and transgender world's in public. Many of the "kinks" of life still are challenged in public view.

    Maybe in the future.
     
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    I can confirm the effect. I was trying on a knit dress at Lane Bryant and the manager, who knows me, asked me to model it for Her. She pointed out the bulge caused by my cage and I had to confess my cage and my submission to Mistreess, etc,,etc. Long story short, the whole staff of ladies there now knows about my cage and chastity and FLR and I was asked to bring in my extra cage and to do a "show & Tell" for them. I did and now there are 5 more women who are interested in the topic, are searching and learning and are in the process of caging their hubbies!

    That said, I think I would find it difficult to strike up a conversation about it with a strange woman!
     
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    Good work expanded minds on new ideas.
    I have several ladies in bra boutiques that work with me on bras for my gynecomastia issues. My cage is off the radar.

    My Wife recently went with and Deb mentioned to her that the leisure bra she selected for me came with matching panties if that was of interest. I almost panicked until she replied " no thanks ".

    She generally sets my appointments and tells them what to model fit me with.
     
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    I would think in this case it would be better for women to tell other women. You might have the cops knocking on the door if you start going out spreading the word lol.
     
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    Yes, discretion would apply. My Wife has not shown interest in sharing our privacy I hope it stays that way. At the boutique I was afraid she was going to say he only wears full brief styles since these were hipster style.

    The shops shehas me working with understand my need for support and keep it strictly business.

    The world in general is not really ready to go open on these subjects.
     
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    No matter how some dress it up, chastity (male or female) and FLR is still a kink! For blokes to go around telling women about such things in everyday life is totally inappropriate. How things are talked with close friends is of course entirely dependent on the relationship. Personally my chastity is a matter purely for Mrs Chaste and myself. I can't see her confiding in any of her friends to be honest and certainly not to any of mine! :)
     
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    We keep ours private. Hope to maintain that.
     
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    It would really require women driving chastity and FLR to really get mainstream and I doubt that will ever happen. We see a few around here that are into it but it’s hardly the norm. I think most women would be turned off by a man that would allow them to subjugate and cage. Even if they enjoyed it at first, I think most women would lose their sexual interest in a man once she had him firmly under foot.

    Just read the romance books that are popular with women and you will not find weak, submissive men as the main character or love interest.
     
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    I'm just trying to help spread the knowledge
     
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    It would be like creepy Jehovas witnesses. Excuse me but do you have a second to talk about male chastity and FLR? Nope.
     
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    Granted some would not. FLR and chastity to me are separate and not always combined.

    I would agree the world in general is not ready for this to be an open subject and may never be.

    Careful choices on discussing these topics.
     
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    I personally would not tell anyone, so as to not offend my wife. However, being submissive, I would accept her telling her friends. In fact, my wife is an assertive businesswoman and so are her friends. I often wonder when I see their husbands if they are also submissive and wearing panties and it chastity!
     
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    We all have secrets. Sometimes thay stay that way.
     
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    Wife and I have talked about how awesome it would be to “share the good news” but agree that some things are best left private.
     
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    Lets reverse the situation here. How would you feel if a complete stranger asked how you and your partner were getting along in the bedroom, offered some suggestions etc?
     
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    Actually, that sounds like the perfect opportunity to spread the word about chastity. :p
     
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    Would expect to use caution in whi and where to spread the word.
     
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    Great. One more person on the street corner.

    "Jesus saves."

    "Save the whales."

    "Give blood."

    "Repent, and be saved."

    "Got a dime?"

    "My dick is in a cage."

    Missionaries of chastity. Coming soon to a soap box near you.
     
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