Pleasure and pain

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    There’s a fine line between.....
    I really get off on the pleasure/pain of having my nipples pinched and played with hard by my wife, while I’m throbbing in my cage. Recently I suggested to her that she use her fingernails when she’s playing with my balls. Wow, that’s whole new sensation, my sharp intake of breath as she scrapes her nails across my sack, then squeezes hard and holds, has told her that like the nipple play, this is something that gets quite a reaction from me.

    At the start of 2021 I said I’d like her to push my limits this year in our play. I’ve been locked up 24/7 for 28 days now, which is a new record for us. I think she’s taken my suggestion on board. BCWYWF. But damn, I love my wife.
     
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    Enjoy the journey...
     
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    Get her a flogger or riding crop. "A good flogging makes a bad boy hard." Two nights ago my wife really got into it, and I was very near my tolerable pain threshold but endured it. Gave me a super hard erection in my cage. Try it, you'll like ( she will too).
     
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    Panda2010 There's a fine line between pleasure and pain

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    Chrissy Amphlett and the Divinyls 'Pleasure and Pain' 1985
     
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    I’d love to give that a go. I think that would be a bridge too far for my wife unfortunately.
     
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    My wife isn't anywhere near dom, but I have asked her to use the wooden spoon on my bare butt a couple of times. She starts off very lightly and I need to encourage her to do it harder. The last time she started to get into some hard swats, making sure to vary the rhythm so I didn't know when to expect something. I might have strained the cage.

    Very much a fine line between pleasure and pain

    It's a fine line between pleasure and pain
    You've done it once you can do it again
    Whatever you've done don't try to explain
    It's a fine, fine line between pleasure and pain

     
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    I love the riding crop. My wife was reluctant at first, she was worried it might hurt me, but as you say...its a fine line. Wearing my jailbird cage with the punishment spike while being spanked while is next level!
     
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    My wife and I both very much enjoy her scratching nails on my balls and we also enjoy when she squeezes them like stress balls. Occasionally she’ll give them some good stinging slaps to mix it up. You should suggest the slapping, you both might like it.
     
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