Should females have some pubic hair and be males shaved ?

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Should females have at least some pubic hair ,while males always shave?

  1. Females should have some pubic hair as its more dominant ?

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  2. Females can have either it dosent matter ?

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    my thoughts on this are
    I like a smooth pussy, its much more comfortable to give oral, no wispies, but not so submissive.
    I have given oral to a lady who had a massive bush, it was uncomfortable for me to give her oral but i found it quite submissive, giving her something that i found uncomfortable.
    I do find it very erotic to see a woman with under arm hair too,
     
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    I think it is shameful of anyone to refer to a person's body or their personal grooming habits that are outside their preferences as discusting. Certainly we are all entitled to what we like but it is not ok to speak derogatory of others. I maintain smoothness in all the areas MEN would see desirable because that I truly believe is my preference eventhough societal and media expectations reinforce that this is the only acceptable way. I think it is wonderful their is a growing movement of women redefining beauty and rebelling against the expectation of shaving. These women are asking themselves why shave, growing their body hair and pushing back against this male dominated society that has defined what is acceptable. I stand with these women and with all women to have the right to choose for themselves without fear of repercussion and shame. I say fuck you men, we are all beautiful.
     
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    I believe it is fully a womans right to do as they want regardless to what anyone else thinks. As for a man in her relationship he should groom in whatever fashion that suits her rather required or a respectful gesture to her.
     
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    I'm finding the tone of some the comments in this poll, as well as the one I ran this past weekend, very disconcerting. On a site dedicated to the superiority of women we've got men expressing disgust at a woman's choice regarding her own body, and telling them what they cannot eat.
    For me this goes beyond this site.
    I'm a father and a husband before all else and I'm never going to tolerate this kind of reprehensible bullshit.
    What's next you men with these enlightening opinions about women? Will you tell the women in my world what to wear, how to dress, how to speak? Can they move about without an escort? Can they drive? Can they vote? To those that speak out against this crap, that won't tolerate it by remaining silent, I salute you. As a father, as a husband, as a son, I thank you for defending a woman's choice!
     
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    Personally woman should only ever do as they please, I’ve obviously got a personal preference but it isn’t my choice to make (0:

    As for males, I certainly shave and think any male in chastity should shave (if not only for ease and comfort (0:
     
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    Pubic hair is like fashion, it changes and is usually driven by women’s current feelings on the matter.

    In the 70’s it was no grooming, 80’s to 90’s got trimmed short to shorter, not sure what happened for the next 15 years because I was married, but when I started dating again in 2016 every woman had a completely shaved pussy! I tend to like that because it allows for a better suction and easier access.

    Actually I remember in high school it was thought that anyone that shaved down there was getting over having crabs! Lol

    Like fashion, I’m sure it will come full circle and the full bush will make a comeback.
     
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    This is a site dedicated to male chastity. Some people try to attach sex-based superiority fantasy bullshit to it and that's all well and good when they keep it to themselves and not when they push it on others. That's the problem with this thread: people try to make rules that everyone should follow rather than understanding that everyone's dynamic is different.

    Bodily autonomy is important, but that doesn't mean we're all obligated to automatically support whatever decision someone makes. If someone's idea of crossdressing or transsexualism is to parade around as an overly sexualized caricature of a gender, people can roll their eyes. If your partner starts eating donuts every day, you should probably see about getting them help since they're likely using food to cope with deeper underlying issues, but you're also not obligated to be attracted to them if they become fat and refuse to try to change things.
     
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    I think I see a hornets nest on the ground...back away slowly ☺️ upload_2021-1-19_14-35-30.png
     
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    Respect, so easily lost...
     
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    My sentiments exactly ...this is just how I feel too ... I just find it implicitly more submissive for males to be always clean-shaven while women have the complimentary opposite by having some hair to display their dominance over the shaven male.
     
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    everyone should do as they please, people are just expressing their preferences, thats all, they aren't demanding people change
     
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    Yes exactly ....some people on here are taking this post completely out of the context and the intention of the original post !....and their actually displaying the very characteristics they seem so upset about .....written communication is non-tonal, people seem to inject their own emotions into someone elses words ...but thankfully most people on here have the intelligence to understand the post!
     
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    Females should do whatever they want. If a male is a sub he should do as he's told.
     
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    Exactly right! Very well said, I agree 100%.
     
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    Very well and accurately said Ladies.
     
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    Oh geeeh the donuts are back! :eek:
    How did they get back into the discussion on female pubic smoothness/roughness says he, licking his lips...:kiss:
    Well I like em smooth and honeyglazed.
     
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    I couldn't agree more Lucy ....Females do as they please and male subs do as they're told....regarding body hair or any other matter!
     
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    Pubic hair isn’t a sign of dominance but it does tell you a lot about how someone takes care of themselves. You can have pubic hair that is maintained and groomed that shows you care about your personal hygiene and cleanliness. Then you can have wild pubic hair because you don’t care. Just like the front lawn of an abandoned house.
     
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    Fantasy aside. I would not be in a relationship with someone whose grooming habits weren't aligned with mine. The same applies for every other aspect of a relationship. We all need to be comfortable in our own skin and intellectually honest with ourselves and our partners.

    Hair down there who cares. Can you turn the screw between my ears? *Tip: grab one ear In each hand and pull firmly into place. That does the trick every time.*
     
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    Yes Mistress
     
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    Simple and correct answer. Works as well for your KH or Wife or SO!
     
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    Is this a CFNM thing? It sounds like you might be expanding the definition of what cloths are to include body hair. You are either thinking like a revolutionary or a mad man. Only history will tell...
     
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    Shaving her private is the first things she stopped when we go to FLR, she told me it was useless as she does it to please me only.
    Now I have to deal with her hair and even if it is a jungle it is the new way. I deal with it now. She is a lot natural, no make up either or sexy cloth anymore. the unexcpeted side of the FLR.
     
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    Just because there is a FLR doesn’t mean that only one side of the relationship doesn’t need to put effort in anymore. This sounds kind of selfish and may be a red flag to look out for. We all do things for the people around us. We do things for others to strengthen our relationship with them, to make them happy, to show that we care about them ect. What if you stopped doing things for her that she enjoys? Stopped doing things for her that matters to her? If I were in your shoes I would take that as you don’t care about maintaining our relationship in some way. This might fall out of the realm of a fetish and in to a discussion of a potential issue that needs to be resolved.
     
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    Within the FLR she has the lead and dictates the relationship but a couple should share a level of respect.

    Its her body and chooses how she wants it . Grooming as she chooses but the reasons to go there should be her pleasure not a rebellion.
     
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