Has a culture of compliance impacted your FLR desires?

So much has changed over the past year. I was wondering if the modern world has changed your FLR inclinations. A culture of compliance due to covid with regard to all of the rules and regulations we have to live by now. If you are in the United States it seems like there is a large push in to a compliance of thought after the capital protests. We are very quickly loosing freedom of speech and diversity of thought. These two issues have caused a “you must put your head down and fall in line” world we must now live in. Had having to give up your rights in 2020-21 caused you to loose interest in conceding yourself to a FLR? Or perhaps has in made you think in a more compliant way and made FLR lifestyles easier?

 

That is what I was wondering. Sort of how dynamics can change from dominant and submissive ways of thinking between how people live their daily routine and how they think as far as bedroom activities go. The cliche of a ceo who is submissive to a dominatrix type of dynamic. It seems like modern life is making us all submissive in our day to day.

 

That is unfortunate. It sounds like income plays a big role in a FLR dynamic. Is it that she isn’t working at all that has her loosing her confidence or would she have lost it if there were a large gap in income difference between you even if she was working? It sounds like she is attempting to be dominant out of service for you at this point instead of feeling it in her soul. Hopefully the sun will shine in your relationship brighter once more some day.

 

It is amazing how all of this has shown a true light on relationships of any kind. It strengthens bonds that need to exist and ruptures the ones that were suppose to end but we held on to for some reason or another.

 

The response to the riot in Washington D.C has been very dangerous. The large tech companies are now deciding what kind of speech is considered dangerous as well as congress is now considering what type of speech should be banned as well. It is understandable to question societal norms with regard to freedom of speech but consider the fact that the people who did the destruction were very conspiracy theory oriented. I don’t think that big tech and government banning speech is going to be helpful in calming the minds of people who are distrustful of those two groups, it will make things more volatile if anything.

 

Reading through an entire section of FLR you will find an endless sea of relationship threads dedicated to “protocol” “compliance” ect. Usually a fetish is exciting for the people involved because it goes against the grain of their everyday life so yes it was a reasonable post for me to ask others in the lifestyle. As far as the free speech goes, your cartoon only proves the point I’m trying to make. That you should have the ability to walk away and not give credence to those whom you disagree with. The United States is a country that governs based on the margin of error when it comes to elections, basically a coin flip. If your group happens to win the coin toss this time, you should govern with the other half in the country in mind not force them to comply. Healthy communication and dialogue is a cornerstone to any functioning group or country. Shutting down those you disagree with by calling their opinions dangerous and making them go away will blow up in your face when they win the coin toss in the next election and exercise the same principles when you try to express your personal views. The same people who are forming commissions in congress in the name of “deprograming” people with dangerous opinions will be screaming about how they are being repressed and silenced when they loose the next election in two years.

 

It wasn’t a question to invoke a political debate it was about how a modern life with increased compliance and protocol that mimics the dynamic of a FLR impacts your FLR.

 

A change in our routine makes a huge difference when it comes to anything. Be it chastity, or eating habits/exercising, or even showering and changing your cloths. I hear so many stories of people who are just lost right now.

 

To sort of build off this idea, do you think the change in our culture will lead to a cultural norm of FLR lifestyles? Sort of priming people in ways to be more compliant and obedient?

 

You could literally turn any thread in to a political one if you wanted to and then declare that this is not a place for politics thus shutting down the conversation......

 

Monica on a previous reply hinted at something about her loosing her job and confidence. That is a huge factor. All of the lockdowns and stay at home orders have taken a part of all our soul in many ways. Sort of like when a generation goes through an economic depression and then they are afraid to spend money. There are going to be a lot of social/mental/emotional issues that will last for many years because of all this. Even just showing your face. Nobody but my mother and sister have even seen my face in a year. Just go to work, to the grocery store when necessary and back home for a year without any break. You hear stories about parents needing to take turns staying in a motel to take a break from family life. Not because there is a lack of love just because we are not made to be sitting in our homes permanently like this.