How long does it take to get horny?

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    Hi All

    I'm 46 years old and have been locked for about 13 days. I would have thought I'd be horny as anything at this point. I'm not feeling anything. Is this weird. How long does it typically take to get horny?

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    Everyone is different.
    I’m always horny so I guess I’d say instantly for me. Obviously for you more than 13 days.
     
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    Just like @tomf_22033 i too am horny all the time, I’m ready to go again a short time after I’m allowed a release. It’s not that being locked makes me horny, it just makes me more horny.

    How long is it for you to normally become aroused @spandexpauly ? Maybe you’ve got something wise going on. Have you done anything to try to make yourself aroused like look at porn you like or anything like that?
     
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    Can't help you since I am always in a state of horniness!
     
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    For me it depends... my wife seems to have an almost zero sex drive so we can go weeks with out anything happening. I just get bored, not horny! But if she’s shown an interest in me then I can be horny. But it’s not been like when I was young fora long time when all I could think about was having an orgasm at least once per day!
     
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    Rather than being in a permanent horny state, I find it sort of simmers just below the surface if you get what I mean. It's quite easy to handle. I think I should add that I am nearly 60 so no spring chicken and I am locked to all intense purposes 24/7 365. Definitely a different set of feelings to the days before chastity and I would say so much more delicious! No more hard on,wank, relief and build up again!
     
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    I am always horny when locked, and as I am locked 24/7 I am always horny!
     
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    I would say... do you have anything to be horny for?
     
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    I locked myself yesterday for a four day lock on Chastikey. I'm horny already. For me it's immediate, as soon as I close the padlock and it slowly goes after 3-4 days
     
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    For me almost instantly. Although I have to agree with an earlier comment: do you have anything to be horny about ? You did say you self-locked.
     
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    I’m close to 60 so parts don’t work all that well because of blood pressure meds. I get horny mostly in the middle of the night. For some reason I can still manage trying to get an erection when sleeping. The other is by my wife’s design, she will feed me a sildenafil and do a wicked tease and denial session. Sometimes she will give me a milking or a caged orgasm, but when she doesn’t, it takes a few days for the hormones to subside.
     
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    spandexpauly,

    Building upon King Hippo's comment, do you live with your keyholder? Is there any teasing/denial going on in the relationship? Did you get horny regularly BEFORE you were locked? If not, then you might just have to rely on porn or some other outlet. Nowhere near as good as a loving keyholder, though, in my opinion.

    But everyone is different and we experience different levels of excitement from different stimuli. And over time, I believe those of us being kept by our Goddess's are actually trained to respond to certain types of activities, touching, clothing, shoes, whatever. Kinda like a Pavlovian response.

    Like others have mentioned, I can pretty much be horny 24/7. Obviously while working and my mind is on other things, not so much. But as soon as my Lovely KeyHolding Wife walks into the room, or texts me, then desire & horniness begins to set in.

    In the morning, when I reach over to give her her "Good Morning Massage", as soon as I think about rubbing her, I can feel my cock twitch in its cage. I, too, have ED issues due to age and BP meds, but the thought of touching and pleasuring my wife gets all of the feelings going inside, whether or not an erection is created.

    Hopefully you'll find what it takes to "get you going". :)

    ~subrick
     
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    It would be about day 3 or 4once caged. I also seemed more so when in my cbxxxx verses my metal one
     
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    Always horny putting a cage on is like giving my horniness steroids lol
     
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    When started this ride the second the lock clicked i became extra horny. After time I was able to find things to do to take mind off it. And after 6 months of total denial my hornyness is only satisfied by serving my KEYHOLDER/WIFE
     
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    I know exactly how you feel, my key holder is also my lovely wife and I get my satisfaction from pleasing her as well
     
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    Horny in the middle of the night, thats because your testosterone levels are at their peak at nigh time
     
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    i,m horny all the time mentally, i do find it physically horny when i'm locked in my cage, but when i'm let out i sometimes find it hard to get aroused, probably an age thing
     
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    Are you self locked or do you have a keyholder of any description? I don't think that I could get horny without someone else being in control of the device.

    As for your question, after a little over two months of being locked with a little teasing/edging here and there, it only takes a moment on BDSMLR now or for wife to cup my balls and then I'm there, pre-cum oozing!
     
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    Just getting back into this, but for me its usually 2 - 3 days after a release before I am feeling horny, it then seems to ramp up over the next 4-5 days and then is sustained from there on. My longest lockup period is only 3 weeks though, so it is undoubtedly different beyond that period.
     
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    Too long LOL
     
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    Well have your had your daily 10 minute teasing with belt off and hands back cuffed?
    She should edge you and the let you cool down and put on your belt again. Every day :D
     
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    The question is, why would my wife want to do this? The only benefit I can see in us ‘playing’ is that sex is off the radar until my wife is interested.
     
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    For me, if I am locked for any length of time without regular teasing or being reminding of what I am missing, I just get used to the idea of being locked, and don't really get horny or even care anymore. It's like just wearing shoes (which I hate to do also!)

    With that said, if my keyholder was the woman in black dress in your profile I think I would be horny 27/7!
     
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