I am Susan the Sissy

Discussion in 'Introductions' started by Susan the Sissy, Jan 11, 2021.

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How many folks got into being sissy as a result of chastity? What came first, chastity or sissy?

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  1. Susan the Sissy
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    Hi all.

    I'm Susan. I have been a life long kinky minded person from a very early age in life. I've been into bondage (though I didn't know what it had a name at the very beginning) from early childhood and always loved being restrained. Crossdressing was also something that came to me early in life, from age 5 in big fancy dresses, teenage in lingerie, and adult life corsets and then fully dressed and made up. Sissy-ness came along later in life after admitting to myself that I really get off on being humiliated over cross-dressing, and wanting to dress so ultra-femme, pink, frilly and pathetic that only a sissy would dress that way - and true women would ridicule me over it. Chastity came in the last few years as an extension to the bondage interest i have. I've experimented with a few different cage types and like the metal ones the most now. I won a competition for a Vice Mini in late 2020 and am currently locked in it. I don't have a permanent key-holder, but do have a very helpful facebook friend that is quite happy to oblige me in being remotely locked and controlled and I'm loving it greatly.
     
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    Welcome Susan, great to read your story so far
     
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    Welcome aboard Susan and I hope you enjoy our company.
     
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    Welcome Susan good to know I'm not the only caged person in Staffordshire
     
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    Yes, that's a fab thing to know - I can sometimes feel alone, but now I know I'm not
     
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    Heck I’m a stone’s throw away in Shropshire
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and enjoyable.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    Susan the Sissy,
    I like you have been kinky all of my life, I a submissive person sexually but a regular fellow other wise. I dress everyday and am in a stainless steel Nub until about 0900, after that I go into drab and do chores. I do not have KH and enjoy bondage with the Nub and TENS; the TENS keeps me on the edge while I am helpless to stop it.
    If I were a SW engineer, I would design a system to remotely control a sissy while in chastity. Electronic control is the future.
     
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    I cross dressed in my mother's and other women's clothes long before discovering chastity.
     
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    Hello anasyrma, and welcome to CM. :)
     
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    Thank you @Gina maid4panties! I think your welcome is for @Susan the Sissy, who I also warmly welcome. Thank you anyway!
     
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    hello @Susan the Sissy and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well.
     
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    Hello and welcome
     
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    Greetings Traveler! Welcome to The Mansion!!!
     
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    Oh my.....I am such a silly sissy....Thanks a bunch for the clarification. ;)
     
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    Hello Susan....and welcome. And thank you sharing a bit about yourself.... and what makes Susan the Sissy tick. Have fun! ;)
     
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    Welcome. :).

    I personally didn't know much about chastity when I began crossdressing at a younger age. I don't want to date myself too much, but the internet wasn't a thing yet, and once it was I discovered 'Mrs Silks House of Enforced Feminization', which gave the desires I had a bit of a voice as well as introduced chastity.

    Have fun on the site.

    M.
     
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    Welcome. @Susan the Sissy ! Please post often and tell us about your journey. You're gonna find lots of sisters here with a lot in common!
     
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    First, welcome!
    Second, what type of competition has a chastity belt as a prize?! I need to hang out with you!
     
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    Ha ha - it was an amazing prize which I didn't expect to win - but hey... one has to try these things. It was from the actual manufacturer of the Vice Mini on their Instagram feed. I've done a couple of social-media competitions and won - but be wary of the fake competitions as there are many
     
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    Im sure I will - thanks for the welcome
     
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    I am a SW engineer and making devices that are remotely controllable is part of my ongoing tasks / hobby these days. I currently have just one device that is remotely controllable - a wand-vibe that can be put to good use. I plan others too, but i'm next planning on creating a site like emlalock but suits my needs more. Other remote control toys to come later.
     
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    The internet was also not around during my early crossdressing days - but it sure has come to life since. I was in university when it started to become available and accessible to all - and doing a degree in software meant i learned things right at the start.... however, I also found crossdressing and fetish related stuff there in the very early days of the www - very primitive stuff, but showing I was not alone any longer - the thoughts I harboured were not unique to myself - at last I had a community I belonged to... though it took a lot of years to get around to finding them face to face. Chastity came much later for me - but by goodness it really takes the forefront of my thoughts so much these days.
     
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