My birthday is coming up in a week or so. I've been locked since new years eve but I think I will be let out for my birthday. we don't do long extended periods of chastity, couple of weeks at a time then locked back up. There's a bit of me that wants to stay locked and go for longer but my kh will decide. I'm intrigued to know what you all do to celebrate your birthday? Are you usually unlocked? Full O? PiV? Or is it usual that you remain locked? Anything else that isn't normal/routine for you?
@MrsBR_Saiph has made it clear this past year or so that special days on the calendar have no bearing on being unlocked and certainly as far as being allowed to have a release. I.e. I was locked and cucked on our anniversary, locked for weeks around my bday, etc. Tough lesson, learned the hard way as each event ticked by.
Wow, I am not sure if being cucked on your anniversary is the most romantic thing ever....or the toughest. Both? The more I think of it, the more romantic it seems.
Last year I was locked for all major events/holidays. My KH says that she doesn’t like letting a calendar decide when I receive a release. She expects me to earn them, though I don’t know what the requirements are.
Any calendar days are irrelevant with my lady, if I Have not accumulated 100 points it doesn’t matter what day it is
There are only a couple times I do not wear my device outside of my normal wear. -On vacation or a trip longer than a day my wife has allowed me to not wear the device when she is on the trip with me. -If I start to get some type of irritation I have been allowed to not wear the device when she is around. Birthday, Christmas, Anniversary, etc... those are all her calls. As long as I have time to spend with her I am happy. I love being able to massage her and get that skin to skin contact & enjoy it even more if she allows me to go further. It's the best when she decides she will reciprocate though, even in the smallest of ways.
My Keyholder Wife, @MistressAMA, makes it a point to HAVE an orgasm on my birthday each year while denying me. I'm locked per normal. This past birthday, She also said that i would be allowed to buy Her my birthday present (nothing kinky).
Update on my birthday, it was epic! I was unlocked in the early hours of my birthday as we were still up. Don't think my KH planned it this way but our teasing and play got to the point where she wanted me inside her. Needless to say it was mind-blowing for me but after being locked up since new years eve, I didn't last long at all! She made me clean up my mess which is a huge turn on for me and helps get me back into a submissive frame of mind. I was locked back up 15 mins later and off to sleep. The day was great with usual birthday celebrations (other than no visitors as we're in lockdown). Spent the day with the wife and children. Got some really cool presents but two are particularly valuable to me. The first is a leather bracelet from my wife. It has an inscription on the inside which is personal to us and reaffirms her ownership over me. I treasure it already and have not taken it off. The second is a pair of new panties! She's not a massive fan of me wearing panties but she does see that it affects my submissive attitude in a good way. It's great that she's now more positive about this aspect. Having been locked up straight after the earlier sex, I wasn't expecting any bedroom activity in the evening and I was feeling tired and on the come down from having had sex and cum. She waited till we were in bed with not much left of my birthday and asked if I was too tired for a pegging. It's been a while since we last did this and I thought she'd lost interest in it. I was a bit taken back but it didnt take me long to get my legs up in the air! Didn't take long for me to cum but it felt more like a ruin as I was locked throughout. I wasn't expecting any of the above..I have an amazing wife. No idea when I'll be let out again. Hopefully valentine's but she's been unhappy with my level of attentiveness over the last few days and has mentioned keeping me locked for a longer stint to avoid lower levels of attentiveness due to cumming.