How do you PIV after long chasting?

I am in the same boat. Mr limpy will never feel the warm wet temple again

 

Similar here ( a little less weed and not quite as much jerking..but similar none the less. Her main motivation to cage me was to keep me from masturbating. Though I'm sure she likes it as a kink too. I get quite a bit harder after having been locked for a week or two. Maybe not as effective as the blue pill but pretty darn close.

 

Wood has left the building. Blue pills don't work for me anymore. Not sure if I will ever be back. PIV for now is something she has no interest in and was never that good, her statement. only want to rebuild relationship that allows me to fulfill her desires and serves to make her happy.

 

Well i'm not allowed in her pussy any more, have you considered that ?

 

Actually I am not a fan of PIV because it is very tough to go back to the cage after long edging in my Wife's pussy without release. But my Wife loves it so bad luck... Of course I am a very poor fucker after long release, because I am on the edge after 30 seconds or so. My Wife then usually tells me to continue with my fingers and after a minute I am told to please her with my cock again, and so on, and so on. When she comes I am already horny as hell and I am begging her to let me cum, but my WIfe is very happy saying me: 'No. And stop touching him.'. I guess it is what I will experience this evening, my Wife suggested it today. I am three weeks without orgasm and 4 days locked in cage now.

 

Quite the story.

 

After a quite a long teasing session, which included stroking, edging, then being tied to a bed with my cage on and a vibe attached and then fucking my fleshlight with a strap on while locked.

My mistress finally unlocked me and let me put my dick into my fleshlight, I lasted two full thrusts before I was on the edge...
After one final edge with the fleshlight I was denied and locked back up.

If that's how I was with a fleshlight, I probably wouldn't survive 1 thrust with real PIV

 

Longest lockup’s for me so far were 26 and 28 days, and I was actually able to last quite a while which surprised both of us. But in that lock up time, my Wife would unlock me and use her cock once or twice a week, she’d get her O and then I’d get a few more pumps and then back into the cage.
Maybe that would help? I guess it could make it worse depending on how you are lol, for me I think it helped keep me from being super sensitive when I was finally allowed to get a cum from piv.

 

Lol lots of wordsmiths here

I can relate to so much of the posts.
I've the hair trigger after only 3 days never mind a week or more chaste or uncaged. (very high drive)
Usually it would mean I'd need to empty the chamber before PIV but that's rare for us and typically it would only be Saturday night and fingers crossed that none of the teens are still awake (god forbid they knew their parents were happily married and still in love)not that there would be any headboard banging .

So I've accepted it will always be a shotgun session unless bedroom choices are made that's in my wife's control (she knows this too) or my wife decides to include the lovely thick dildo she picked out but rarely uses (pity)

In the end PIV rarely happens for us mostly oral for her and I'm happy with that, Her orgasm is very very important to me and it does reduce the high drive if only for awhile, I only wish it happened more often...Ah that oxytocin & dopamine hit..

 

Mrs Xileh likes sex. She also likes to keep me desperate and knows after a long lockup I may not last long. She enjoys it. She gets plenty of satisfaction otherwise so does not rely on me when unlocked. She will leave me unlocked for a couple of days to stretch out and she often gets another go around.

 

Have never thought about it, as i know i'll never have PIV again. Just don't worry about ti and do the best you can. Good luck and enjoy.

 

Great advice MissyB!

 

It is over 6 months now since I have had my last orgasm so during PIV I would cum after a few thrusts. Therefore it is useless for my lovely Wife and I will probably never experience real PIV sex again. Last 12 days I was out of home and my Wife told me that she wanted to be fucked tonight. When I aksed her if she wanted my cock or her vibrator, she said: 'Your cock'. 'In your rubber sleeve and a lot of numbing cream' - she added to let me know how I should prepare to give her long pleasure.

 

My wife is slowly, incrementally and even glacially assuming her control over my orgasms. Her default position is to "make me happy" and allow me to cum while she hopes I'll lock back up on my own since she enjoys my added attention.

I'm thinking the major cage manufacturers should have a tag on every device they sell that tells them to double the locking period after each orgasm for maximum effectiveness.

 

I rarely get the chance. And never last over a minute when i do.