Becoming a sissy maid

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    #1 chastityslave526, Dec 30, 2020
    I have posted in classifieds already. My betrothed and I are looking for a domme to train me to become a perfect sissy maid. She is nearly asexual and I am a budding submissive. I have a very high sex drive, most of the time sex is the very last thing on her mind. We have decided the best thing going forward is for is for me to become her perfect little sissy maid. I certainly need to be put in my place. Any advice, rules or more is very much appreciated
     
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    #2 King Hippo, Dec 30, 2020
    I have no experience in the area, but maybe she could help pick you an outfit!
     
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    #3 Guest 2684, Dec 30, 2020
    Your betrothed should do it so you become what she wants
     
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    #4 chastityslave526, Dec 30, 2020
    That would be ideal but she has no interest to do the training herself
     
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    #5 chastityslave526, Dec 30, 2020
    She has said find a domme or give it up
     
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    #6 Guest 2684, Dec 30, 2020
    Is that what you really want someone else to do it is it worth doing if she doesn't want it
     
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    #7 chastityslave526, Dec 30, 2020
    I understand where you’re coming from. She’s not a natural dominant and I’m not a natural submissive. We’re trying this to help with our sexual imbalance. ( I do have some submissive interest) and maybe chastity and denial will help her set the pace
     
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    #8 chastesoon, Dec 30, 2020
    I would suggest joining Fetlife.com! Join some sissy maid groups! You may find a dom that would be willing to train you, but there may be a price tag attached!
     
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    #9 chastityslave526, Dec 30, 2020
    Thank you! We just got on fetlife and have started our search. I would love to be able to connect with other sissys too!
     
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    #10 debbie jones, Dec 30, 2020
    sorry to have to say this but if you ve got a high sex drive and your partner is mainly not interested your heading for a life of misery .you would be best finding someone with moor compatabl intrests . belive me if shes not interestewd now there will be zero intrest in a few years
     
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    #11 chastityslave526, Dec 30, 2020
    I can appreciate where you’re coming from. Our thought is the feminization, chores and what not should help me refocus some of my energy. With weekly pegging and maintenance spankings. We also do monthly ruin or prostate orgasm. From there if she wants oral or to get off then I service those needs.

    This setup is new to us and we’re open to all the advice we can get.

    thanks
     
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    #12 Shepherdsflock, Dec 31, 2020
    Huge libido mismatch does not sound very good for the relationship in the long run. I wish you well.
     
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    #13 LesterBallard, Dec 31, 2020
    I have to be honest, this sounds like a bizarre solution to what is actually a very common problem in relationships. I think you and your wife need to talk things through. There's no chance of this approach working in reality. Good luck.
     
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    #14 DonnaSue, Dec 31, 2020
    I would suggest that you PM @MistressS as She is an expert at training Sissies. Best wishes for you!
     
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    #15 MissyB, Jan 1, 2021
    Although being a sissy maid for your wife is an admirable goal, it may be too big a step at first. If she is asexual, it may not fit with her personality to go all out all at once. I'd suggest you start by just doing the chores and housework, as her husband. Leave sub and sissy out of it, as you serve her. Let her see the advantages of you taking the sub role to her. Then as she becomes accustomed to this new dynamic, slowly introduce more overt submission, including being more fem. You didn't mention chastity, so unsure how that works in your current relationship. It could be a very helpful tool to control your sex drive and allow her to acclimate to new role. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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